So sorry to hear your sad news. I sometimes think it's easier you having the cancer than watching a loved one go through it. My grandad had lung cancer and was diagnosed just after my nan died and I think he just gave up it was terrible to see. 

Wishing you well and hope the situation gets easier x

Hi, so sorry about the sad news of your brother.  Our siblings have been with us all their lives, right from tiny children playing together, so it is an incredibly difficult time. My own brother died from cancer 20 years ago at the age of 56 and I was devastated.

I am sure he appreciates your company so much at a time when he cant do much for himself.  Thoughts are with you both and my very best wishes!  x