I have recently been diagnosed with lung cancer and I feel so overwhelmed and anxious, I can't think of anything else from morning to night. I live with my husband but I can't talk to him as he says you don't know what's going to happen yet when I talk about the surgery and the pain afterwards. I don't know how to break the news to my 3 grown up children and I have 6 grandchildren aged 2 to 20

I break down and cry numerous times a day, my husband works so I have plenty of time during the day to worry. My children live in different places in the UK and all work so I'm left on my own and I n't know how to cope. I wish I didn't know about the cancer and was just left to live as I was as I have no symptoms. I see the surgeon this week, I don't know what questions I should be asking him.lease help I'm not coping. Thank you x