I would like to know of positive outcomes from ladies refusing the recommended treatment(s) whether that be surgery, chemo, radiation or other. I have come across many forums where people seem to be of the opinion that we should all do as we are told and that the Oncologist knows best for us and we just go along with this.I do not want a big debate over this, just want to know of those that maybe had node involvemement but were set on not having chemo or radiotherapy was suggested and they declined.Also, how are you all doing now