My hubs has just been told he has incurable anal cancer as it’s spread to his lymph nodes. He’s had it twice before. The first time in 2018 was a complete response following chemoradiotherapy. The second time in 2022 he had APR surgery and a stoma. And now the b*stards back again!!! Feel exhausted with it all. His treatment option is now chemo but no cure will be possible so it’s about making his life as long and comfortable as possible. Anyone else been on this journey? Being a carer is so hard and I’m fed up of everyone telling me how stoic I’m being!