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Misdiagnosed - originally told I had an anal fissure but now I've been diagnosed with advanced rectal cancer. I'm scared

Nannybear-69
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Hi all

I just recently diagnosed with rectal cancer then it spread to my liver and now on my lymph node on my right groin 

But for 8 weeks was told it was an anal fissure 

I am scared I have good days and bad days too 

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    Heya.

    Welcome to the forums. One thing I found helpful was keeping a feelings diary. I wrote in it each week describing my feelings. I also took up sewing and puzzles as well. I also recommend finding out more about what to expect each week. Make sure to get contact details and so on. Read free cancer information booklets. Your hospital should have copies of those in question here. Best wishes.

    You can do this. Also ask about open cancer research trials. Take it easy. Keep us updated. 

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    I started a journal on 29th March and I write in it everyday saying what I eat do how im feeling and if I get any visitors as im housebound at the moment as I cant physically get into a car.the only time I go any where is for hospital appointments and thats by ambulance. I've started knitting again and ive done so much colouring which I will leave for my grandkids so they can look at them and say nanny did that for me 

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    Hi

    Really sorry to hear of your diagnosis.  What treatment are they giving you? 

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    Im having chemo to see if it will shrink but at moment its in my liver a lot more then after my 4th session I'm going to have another scan and see from the results what the next plan of action is 

    Thank you for replying. It's a bit of a shock as I was told for nearly 7weeks its just anal fissure tear 

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    Really hope the treatment works for you. Ive got my colonoscopy which theyve rushed through this morning.  Ive got a 10cm lesion on my liver so am not too hopeful on the outcome today. 

  • Hello Nannybear-69

    I'm sorry to hear that you were recently diagnosed with rectal cancer that has spread to your liver. It's understandable that you're riding a rollercoaster of emotions at the moment. Hopefully you next scan will show some positive news, and the team will be able to offer you some reassurance. 

    I wanted to reply and to tag in another member,  aka David, who has previously been through treatment for bowel cancer, which had spread to the liver. David successfully went through treatment and has been able to share his experiences with others, which I know has offered hope to people who find themselves in similar circumstances. Hopefully, he'll pop along soon to say hello. 

    I also wanted to say that if you ever want to chat with one of our nurses, please do give them a call. I know they will be happy to listen and offer any advice, information and support they can. They're available Monday to Friday 9am to 5pm on 0808 800 4040. 

    I hope that things progress well for you Nannybear-69. Do keep in touch and let us know how you get on. 

    Best wishes, 
    Jenn
    Cancer Chat moderator 

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    Thank you for that I just hate the fact every day is totally different from the day before. I'm so used to be doing things then suddenly not able to do things is a big blow in ur face. 

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