Hi Bianch I am sorry to hear about your diagnosis.  My mother-in-law is exactly the same, don't eat tomatoes, eat spinach or other kind of things like this.  She does mean well, but as Katdea says she is not medically trained.  You want the best for your little girls and your team know the best way to treat your cancer.  Your Mom probably is scared and feels helpless and just wants to do what she can from another country.  I had chemo for breast cancer and yes it is hard but worth it if it gets rid of the cancer.  You will hear lots of other peoples advice and it does get tiring but you have to try and ignore it.  One bit of advice I got which worked for me is to try and keep to your normal routine.  Trying to keep a normal routine will not only help you but help your daughters and family.  I did this when having chemo, got up walked the dogs every day (even if it was a short walk).  It made me feel a bit in control of things I could do. Do you have a date to start your chemo yet?  Good luck and happy to chat any time.  You are not alone.

Lee x