It has now been confirmed that I have stage 3B cancer, I have lost the use of my legs and can only walk with a zimmer frame. The doctor told me that treatment might not be possible until I can walk, but it’s the cancer that is stopping this from happening so what I’m I todo? The success rate is 70 percent for 5 years with treatment I feel so helpless, my wife does not know or has not looked into how bad it is, she is looking at aids and treatments that can help with other ailments that I have due to the cancer. She has not come to terms with the fact that in 5yrs or less I will die, I’m not afraid of death I just wish that people would be honest with me and not look at me with pity. Saying it will be okay you will get through this when in-fact what they should be saying is you have a chance of another 5yrs. I have broad shoulders I can take it, what I can not stand is the so called doctors that are looking after you looking at you with pity and just not say anything.