Hi. I've just been diagnosed with breast cancer and it's spread to my bones.

I don't have my treatment plan yet, as I only found out on Friday.

I'm terrified! My mother died from breast cancer at 59yrs. I'm 56 now. Her end was awful to watch. I'm hoping that modern treatments can help me, but what if they can't?

Is Dignatas a real/good option? I don't want to die in pain.

I've thankfully got a really excellent supportive family, so will fight. But just wonder how I can ensure I don't suffer unnecessarily. 

What do they do in the UK at end of life to help?

Or am I being too negative?