May I say if any one has moles that do not look right please get them seen ASAP  personally I ignored  my partner and friends  who told me 2 years plus ago they did not like look of my mole on my left forearm .   Also I have been a avid and vain sunbather  and look where  it has got me ,I'm 61 years  now and annoyed with myself 

Hi Topmixe, don’t be too hard on yourself, a lot of us, myself included, have failed to act on health concerns as soon as we could or should have. It's only human to mentally deny threatening possibilities. All we can do is learn from it and encourage others to act rapidly.

Hi Topmixe, don’t be too hard on yourself, a lot of us, myself included, have failed to act on health concerns as soon as we could or should have. It's only human to mentally deny threatening possibilities. All we can do is learn from it and encourage others to act rapidly.