Hello fatface

I'm sorry to hear about your husband's recent diagnosis and the dilemma you find yourselves in regarding your holiday. It's understandable that this is causing you both some anxiety. 

Hopefully, other forum members who have been through similar problems will be able to share their experiences and advice with you. 

Whatever decision you make, I hope that your husband's treatment goes smoothly and that before too long you both have the option to be able to take a break away together. 

Best wishes, 
Jenn
Cancer Chat moderator 

Thank you  so very sick with worry about husband getting his treatment just trying to relieve some of his stress   the mist important thing is my husband heath praying that treatment is successful 

Personallyas someone going though chemotherapy I would cancel the holiday abroad.and book something closer to home to look forward to 

I was diagnosed with bilateral breast cancer in October, and we had a big holiday booked for February/March (to NZ & Australia). Initially, we hesitated about cancelling, but in November, we decided to cancel. I was gutted about missing the holiday, but once it was cancelled, I was actually relieved - I suppose it was one less thing to stress about? Anyway, we are still hoping to take the same holiday at some point, but at a time when we can look forward to it and enjoy it. Realistically, there is no way that I would want to be going on a big trip at the end of this month, so in my case, we did the right thing. But obviously, everyone’s cancer journey is different. 
Very best wishes for his treatment.