When I was diagnosed with breast cancer.i was so positive so positive for 4 months I didn’t let it bother me at all.however i do t no of it was the x4 chemo or the fact that I wasn’t sleeping very well.that im anxious all the time a tightness in my chest I panic all the time.scared of everything.questioning everything.brain fog also .surgery is on 14 th Feb also.hopeing talking to someone helps and medication off the doctor..i think k it’s something you just have to go though.Its not nice.but im hopeing it will make me stronger then before.and more able to look and care for my daughter.be strong.cry.scream if you need to.you have every right to your emotions 

When I was diagnosed with breast cancer.i was so positive so positive for 4 months I didn’t let it bother me at all.however i do t no of it was the x4 chemo or the fact that I wasn’t sleeping very well.that im anxious all the time a tightness in my chest I panic all the time.scared of everything.questioning everything.brain fog also .surgery is on 14 th Feb also.hopeing talking to someone helps and medication off the doctor..i think k it’s something you just have to go though.Its not nice.but im hopeing it will make me stronger then before.and more able to look and care for my daughter.be strong.cry.scream if you need to.you have every right to your emotions 

Hi there I think we have to go through the surgery, additional treatment before we can start to process. You don’t say how old your daughter is but you will be strong in your own way. Don’t try and be a hero, do what you need to do but be honest with your feelings. Accept help. I have joined a support group, I’ve only been twice but the room was so full of positivity and there were people there who had cancer 20 years ago which shook off the death sentence I thought I had. You will find your own way to make sense of this