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Got the news today - I have melanoma - not sure how to feel right now

Miffmoo
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Hello all, I've had the results of a mole/lesion removal on my neck today and been told that it's a 0.4mm deep melanoma. The consultant believes a 1a I think. After initially having the feedback that it was very unlikely to be of concern it was a small shock but it is what it is. I'm 42 with a wife and 8yr old boy. I have a history of cancer in my family but I had hoped for a few more years before it raised its head. I am waiting on a dermatologist appointment for a full body check and I do have other moles, freckles over my body which have increased in size and irregularity as I've got a bit older so it's a bit of a worry. Right now I'm proper *** off but content, I believe I've been caught early so should be great full but am a bit wobbly to say the least. I lend my thoughts to everyone else who may be in a situation of de-stress or worry, good luck to you all and lets beat what ever is thrown at us.

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    Hi Miffmoo,

    It will take you a while for the shock to sink in but meanwhile, please know that your melanoma has been caught at a very early stage and there is a 99% chance that you will be successfully treated after surgery.

    Of course, there is always a slightly higher chance of getting a new primary melanoma once you've already had a diagnosis, but you are now under dermatology &, if anything looks suspicious, they will remove it & again, there is every chance it's been caught early. I've had 7 further moles/lesions removed since my original diagnosis and they were all benign so there is a good chance your other moles will be OK.

    You will be monitored for a year but they will show you how to check your moles & lymph node areas so that, if you find anything worrying, you get it checked out early. We usually advise that melanoma patients check themselves once a month - perhaps the 1st of each month so you don't forget. There are plenty of videos on YouTube that show how to check your skin & lymph node areas so it's worth checking them out. As long as you check yourself & protect yourself in the sun you should be fine.

    Try & forget it for now & have a good family Christmas.

    Angie (Stage 3 melanoma patient since 2009)

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    It's the worst shock especially with young kids , I had skin cancer and radio still waiting for final appointment make sure it's gone and not spread , I understand how overwhelming it is, but it sounds like they have caught it early,  christies is a wonderful place they will fix you , it's never a good time for bad news but Xmas will be harder, reach out to macmillan they are so informative, caring and there to help , I've had dark days lots of time off work 3 beautiful young girls and would never of got through it with out the Mrs,  there's lots of people to talk to , good luck not that I think you need luck it's the quickness and skill of the people off christies,  macmillon and all the help out there.

    Peace and love sent your way , best wishes for Christmas x

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