My dad now 74, was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer October 23, after quite a few rounds of chemo he was finally offered the whipple, they had also found an abscess on his liver but said they didn’t think it as cancer so he had the whippple surgery June 24. They said they got everything out and it went well. We celebrated! However my dad’s recovery was very slow, he’s been in and out of hospital since June. He was meant to start more chemo to mop up everything, he’s not been able to do this cause they were concerned about what they thought was an abscess on the liver originally so they did a biopsy after this he was getting a lot of pain in his stomach, we waited and waited for the results and the first set back was to say it wasn’t an infection, then Friday 6th of September they got the results back and unfortunately they said it’s mets on the liver and possibly on the stomach lining. We were floored because this “top man” who did the biopsy had said “if I was a betting man then I would say this is just in infection” so we just not prepared or ready for this news. As my dad is still so poorly they have said if he has chemo it may only give him 3-6 months, but we don’t think he will be well enough.
He’s in pain but the morphine makes him feel sick and the anti sickness tablets don’t help so he’s not eating, Looking for any hope! Anything to help us, any help or support please. My family is just broken, I have not stopped crying or trying to find something online to help or give us hope. Thank you