Mum had secondary cancer liver, lung, lymph node. We have an appointment tomorrow to find out more. How can we prepare for this meeting?

We have just found out that our wonderful mummy has secondary cancer and tomorrow have an appointment to understand where the primary is after a liver biopsy - I want advice on how to prepare my mmy for this meeting as I am so scared that the Consultant will say there are no treatment options when my mummy so wants to live and have treatment …. Any advice on how to ensure she is given a ally fair chance or any particular questions we should be asking or support we can give her ? Thanks ️

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  • Welcome to the forum Londonirishpj although I'm sorry to hear your mummy has been diagnosed with secondary cancer.

    This must be a very difficult time for you both but I hope your appointment with the consultant went well and you were able to find out more about your mummy's diagnosis and what treatment may be available.

    If there was anything that you forgot to ask or that you still have playing on your mind since you spoke to the consultant, then don't hesitate to give our cancer nurses a call to talk things through. They're available on 0808 800 4040, Monday - Friday between 9a.m - 5p.m and they will do all that they can to help.

    Now that I've replied, I'm sure some of our members will be along soon to offer their support and advice for the journey ahead.

    We're thinking of you Londonirishpj and sending all our support your way.

    Kind regards,

    Steph, Cancer Chat Moderator

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  • Welcome to the forum Londonirishpj although I'm sorry to hear your mummy has been diagnosed with secondary cancer.

    This must be a very difficult time for you both but I hope your appointment with the consultant went well and you were able to find out more about your mummy's diagnosis and what treatment may be available.

    If there was anything that you forgot to ask or that you still have playing on your mind since you spoke to the consultant, then don't hesitate to give our cancer nurses a call to talk things through. They're available on 0808 800 4040, Monday - Friday between 9a.m - 5p.m and they will do all that they can to help.

    Now that I've replied, I'm sure some of our members will be along soon to offer their support and advice for the journey ahead.

    We're thinking of you Londonirishpj and sending all our support your way.

    Kind regards,

    Steph, Cancer Chat Moderator

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