Mother just told has cancer of throat. We are waiting for biopsy results and see a dietitian. Unclear next step fo we arrange appointment?

Hi I live abroad so my mum was on her own when she got the news so she didn't take it all in. She can't swallow solid food and the nurse mentioned seeing a dietitian but she doesn't know if the appointment will be made for her or we have to arrange? Not surr if we have to contact them for results or how long it takes. The nurse marked it as urgent. 

Would I be allowed to talk to the nurse. She told my mother she could call her. I am heading home so I am with her for next appointments. Would also like to know what I should be asking? 

Sorry for a lot of questions 

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  • Hi Gilly.

    My dad was diagnosed with tonsil cancer last year. As it was cancer of the head and neck, or more specifically throat, part of his team was a dietician and speech and language therapist. The appointments for his speech and language therapist were arranged automatically and he was seen by them to help with swallowing issues, dietary requirements and rehabilitation of the throat after surgery.

    Dad was prescribed some kind of solution to take with foods that makes the saliva heavier so swallowing is easier. Something like that will help your Mum. The specialists are fantastic and I’m sure they’ll be able to alleviate your Mum’s symptoms.

    in terms of questions, I’d be asking about next steps, treatment options and the side effects associated, staging and anything your Mum can do to alleviate symptoms herself.

    I know it’s a challenging time but it’s great that you can go with her to her next appointments. In my experience there’s too much to take in for one person so a second pair of ears is really beneficial.

    Hope you get some clarity and can move forward with a plan for your Mum. Happy to chat anytime! :) Take care

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  • Hi Gilly.

    My dad was diagnosed with tonsil cancer last year. As it was cancer of the head and neck, or more specifically throat, part of his team was a dietician and speech and language therapist. The appointments for his speech and language therapist were arranged automatically and he was seen by them to help with swallowing issues, dietary requirements and rehabilitation of the throat after surgery.

    Dad was prescribed some kind of solution to take with foods that makes the saliva heavier so swallowing is easier. Something like that will help your Mum. The specialists are fantastic and I’m sure they’ll be able to alleviate your Mum’s symptoms.

    in terms of questions, I’d be asking about next steps, treatment options and the side effects associated, staging and anything your Mum can do to alleviate symptoms herself.

    I know it’s a challenging time but it’s great that you can go with her to her next appointments. In my experience there’s too much to take in for one person so a second pair of ears is really beneficial.

    Hope you get some clarity and can move forward with a plan for your Mum. Happy to chat anytime! :) Take care

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