Oncologist appointment tomorrow - what questions should I ask?

After being diagnosed on 18th January and going through all the various test, I finally get to see the oncologist tomorrow. Would like to hear from anyone who has any suggestions about what questions would be good to ask. 

Also what are your experiences of how long it took for treatment to start after first oncology appointment. As my breast cancer is grade 3 and fast growing, I'm worried about it spreading, before my treatment even gets started. 

Was it suggested you have a PICC line or port?

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  • Having a stressful day today. Had my pre chemo consultation by phone today. Went well with lots of information given about what to expect.  However, I did forget to mention about some niggling breast pain I've been having. They come and go, sometimes slightly shooting pain. Did phone breast care nurses last week, who said probably due to all the biopsies I had. They were done a few weeks ago, so wondered if pains would only start happening in the last week. So annoyed with myself, even had it written down. I know I can mention on Monday, but will now have to go through two more days of stress!!

  • Hi Pippin 24, I think every little niggling pain is a worry when you're in the position that we are, try not to worry hopefully the chemotherapy will start to work killing all of the harmful cancer cells,  hope everything goes well for you on Monday,   I'm anxious at the moment waiting for my PET scan results on Friday the 8th xx

  • Hi MadhatterC, good to hear you are having a lovely day doing something nice with your children. I've just been to visit my elderly parents. Wanted to take my mum her mother's day present, as I won't be able to visit next week. I have decided to isolate for first 10 days after chemo, apparently this is when I'm most vulnerable to infection. Good luck with your appointments next week, hope you get some idea of when your treatment will start. Xx

  • Seems like a good plan to isolate for 10 days and cannot agree more the wonder of technology these days is priceless.  After Monday you will be one step closer to your goal and no doubt the nerves of not knowing what to expect despite all the advice they give you will subside a bit.   I'll be thinking of you tomorrow 

    take care and best of luck for round 1 

    xxx 

    Norma 

  • Hi Pippin,

    The waiting time is nearly over, at last - I'm sure that you'll be glad to start chemo. It sounds as if you are all prepared. Have you got plenty of reading material to take with you? I am keeping my fingers crossed for you that it works well and that you'll soon have it all behind you. I shall be thinking of you, as you start your journey tomorrow.

    Kind regards,

    Jolamine xx

  • Thank you so much Jolamine and yes I'm all prepared. Have my kindle and earphones to listen to music. Feeling calm today and ready to fight this thing. You and others on this site have been a great support. Xx

  • Will be thinking off you hun, keep us updated on how you are I have been told by someone today who has been through chemo go drink as much water as you can tomorrow and the day after it is meant to help flish it through the system.

  • Thanks, will be sure to drink plenty, will let you know how everything goes. Thank you for your support. Xx

  • Good luck today ,and yes ,plenty of fluids too . Xx

  • Good luck today Pippin.  Hope everything goes well for you. xx

  • Thank you Carol, all went well. Xx

  • Hi there, i've just been reading your thread. I really hope you're getting on ok with your treatment. I've had a lumptomy and have now been told i need 3 rounds EC and 3 rounds Docetaxel so very similar to you and the others on this thread. I just wanted to say that i'm thinking of you  and really hope side effects are kept to a minimum. I'm seeing my oncologist today so hopefully i'll have more of an idea on start dates etc...just feels very surreal that i'm chatting to my friends about wigs and things! Debating doing the cold cap and can't decide. My hair is really thin already. Will chat to oncologist later..anyway i just wanted to say good luck with your treatment and hope you are out the other side soon. Let us know how you're getting on and any tricks or tips would be very much appreciated as i'm not far behind you!!

    Take care xx

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  • Hi there, i've just been reading your thread. I really hope you're getting on ok with your treatment. I've had a lumptomy and have now been told i need 3 rounds EC and 3 rounds Docetaxel so very similar to you and the others on this thread. I just wanted to say that i'm thinking of you  and really hope side effects are kept to a minimum. I'm seeing my oncologist today so hopefully i'll have more of an idea on start dates etc...just feels very surreal that i'm chatting to my friends about wigs and things! Debating doing the cold cap and can't decide. My hair is really thin already. Will chat to oncologist later..anyway i just wanted to say good luck with your treatment and hope you are out the other side soon. Let us know how you're getting on and any tricks or tips would be very much appreciated as i'm not far behind you!!

    Take care xx

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  • Hi Greeny80, so far so good with the first treatment, no sickness at the moment.  Glad to hear you have already got through your surgery. I had hoped to do that first myself, but they wanted to do chemo first for me. I was offered cold cap treatment but decided against it, as I'm already prone to headaches. I also feel the cold and thought the cold cap would make the treatment sessions too much for me to cope with. I'm all set with my wig and some nice hats, hopefully hair will grow back quickly after treatment finishes. I have bought a product called ploybalm to help reduce nail damage  it was recommended to me by someone on this site. I've researched it a bit and think it's worth a try. Apparently Docetaxel can be harsh on the nails, so I've already started using it to hopefully strengthen them up now. Hope all goes well with your oncology appointment today, let me know how it goes. Xx

  • Awww thanks for the update hun, so glad you are feeling OK and keeping fingers and toes crossed this carries on for you x 

  • Thank you. Went for a lovely 40 minute walk with hubby. Had a snooze after lunch. Just prepped dinner and now chilling watching telly. When is your mri appointment?

  • That was last Tuesday hun, but haven't heard anything back. I am with Oncology Friday morning. I have noticed on my NHS app that I am on the waiting list for geriatric medicine but have no clue what that is about. I am only 40 . Sound like a lovely chilled out day hun. I recommend the Jury on channel 4 if you haven't seen it yet 

  • Hopefully you'll find out a bit more info on Friday. Not heard of geriatric medicine, that will be a question to ask. Will have to have a look at the Jury, always need good recommendations. Let me know how Friday goes. Xx

  • Hi Pippin,

    Well, hat's the first session over and you're on your way. I am glad to hear that you coped ok today and that you didn't have any nausea. Let's hope that this sets the pattern for the rest!

    Kind regards,

    Jolamine xx

  • Thanks so much for the ploybalm intel will take a look! I’m due to start chemo on the 19th!…so I’m not far behind you!!

     So glad to hear your first round went ok..Hope you’re feeling ok today too and that you can breeze through it! Keep us posted!

    going to get my hair chopped this week and look at some wigs - all feels very surreal!! Xx

  • Hi ladies, I had posted previously but my cancer was more advanced than they first thought so i am now joining the chemo train. I saw my oncologist for the first time yesterday, he said there's about a 4 week wait so i expect I'll be April now. I need 4 x EC and 4 x Taxel (?), and then a whole host of other things after that including more surgery, radio and tablets and infusions. Hope you are all ok x

  • Thanks Jolamine, so far so good. I did  have a headache all day yesterday, but that's not unusual for me. It's the reason I didn't go for the cold cap, which I think was the right decision. Finger's crossed I'll be fine once off the  anti sickness meds. Xx

  • Hi Greeny80, all has been fine apart from a slight headache all day yesterday. However, I am prone to headaches anyway, which is why I decided against the cold cap.  Had a lovely walk with hubby and was able to cook dinner. Good luck with your chemo on the 19th and with your wig shopping. I was really happy with my wig and have also bought a few nice hats. I got my hair cut short last week, still trying to get used to it. I'm  a bit apprehensive about it falling out though! Please let me know how you get on. Xx