Oesophageal cancer

My mum has recently been told a tumour has been found in her oesophagus,  straight after her 3rd endoscopy (2 failed due to food still in stomach)

Biopsies taken and a PET scan, had a call today to say an appointment been made for her tomorrow and to bring a list of all medication she takes.

This was so unexpected as her GP dismissed ALL symptoms since March 2023 as withdrawal from a strong painkillers she was taking for a bad back. He refused to send her for an urgent referral, until she changed GP and she mentioned she'd lost weight that's when the ball started rolling. We all thought just an ulcer or hernia.

I am devastated and want to know if they will tell her there's nothing they can do (if that's the case) as I don't think she would cope, neither my dad....

Any advice please xxxx

  • Sorry terrible explanation 

    Would they always try to do something, will they give you a idea of time etc

    I'm afraid I'm not coping well really, very strong in front of her but can't talk about it in front of anyone else without sobbing

  • Hello KirstyBu

    I'm so sorry to hear about the news that your Mum has recently been given. It's naturally a difficult time for you all. 

    How did the appointment with the specialist go yesterday? I hope that they were able to answer some of the questions you have and give you some reassurance about the next steps. 

    If you'd like to talk things through with one of our team of nurses you're welcome to call them on 0808 800 4040, Monday to Friday 9am to 5pm. I know they will be happy to offer any advice, information, and support they can. 

    I also wanted to give you the link to this thread which has many posts from people who have been through oesophageal cancer as well as those who have cared for a loved one. You might find it helpful to have a look through some of the posts and maybe reply to introduce yourself. 

    Let us know how things are when you're able to Kirsty. 

    Best wishes, 
    Jenn
    Cancer Chat moderator 

  • Hello

    Thank you

    We saw the nurse who confirmed it was a cancerous tumour that was large but was surprised how well my mum seemed. No stent or surgery needed as of yet no spread, borderline in 1 lymph node but radiotherapy to start soon

    Thank you for replying x