So sorry, I have put this in the wrong chat, and I dont know how to move it?

Hi Jay,

I am so sorry to hear this and know only too well what a shock it is. The breast can be tender for a while after a biopsy, but it will eventually settle down. Most of us cry a lot when told news like this. This is normal and crying is a great stress reliever, so don't worry about it. You will feel much better once you get the results of your biopsy back. It is so much easier once you know exactly what type of cancer it is and what you are going to do to get rid of it. Did they say when you should hear from them?

I have had two bouts of breast cancer myself, but that was all 14 years ago now and I still lead a busy life. Now that you have had this investigated, you are in the right hands. You are also in the right place here for support, as we have all been through this, or are going through it at present.

Please keep in touch and let us know how you are getting on. We are always here for you.

Kind regards,

Jolamine xx

Hi Jolamine

Thank you for replying,  I really appreciate your help!

The Dr said 2 to 3 weeks for results. I also just remembered that he said that I would come in for a CT scan before that so they had all the info before they made a plan. 

I'm on holiday at the moment and due back to work on Monday, I'm just not sure I want to tell anyone but also not sure I can hold it together.  I'm feeling so confused as II'm very private person. 

Thanks

JayOh

Hi JayOh,

You should get your CT appointment through soon. I hope that  you are managing to enjoy your holiday, despite having this hanging over you. Most people don't tell anyone until the get the actual diagnosis. See how you feel when you come back - it's totally up to you, when you tell them. The more positive you can be when you tell them, the better they'll accept it. It's usually easier to be more positive once you know what type of cancer you have and what treatment lies ahead.

You will find it easier when you can talk to someone about it.

Kind regards,

Jolamine xx

Hi JayOh,

You should get your CT appointment through soon. I hope that  you are managing to enjoy your holiday, despite having this hanging over you. Most people don't tell anyone until the get the actual diagnosis. See how you feel when you come back - it's totally up to you, when you tell them. The more positive you can be when you tell them, the better they'll accept it. It's usually easier to be more positive once you know what type of cancer you have and what treatment lies ahead.

You will find it easier when you can talk to someone about it.

Kind regards,

Jolamine xx

Thank you xxx

Jay ho 

 had breast cancer last year July 22 I’m fully recovered and back to normal life , where you are I’ve been it’s a shock but you do get through it and better than you thibk don’t fall apart stay positive you can do this , and life soon gets back to normal I promise hete to chat anytime love Lara x 

Thank you Lara

I'm glad to hear you have made a full recovery! Thank you for replying and offering to chat, I really appreciate it.  X

My head is just all over the place, must try harder to get myself together.

JayOh

Jayho 

mite a marathon not a sprint but very doable lovely hope you are feeling better today xxx 

Hi JayOh,

I hope that you managed to enjoy your holiday. Have you had an appointment through for your CT scan yet and how are you bearing up? Kind regards,

Jolamine xx

Jayho,how are you getting on .? Like Lara I had breast surgery in July 22 , bilateral mastectomies,and left sided lymphclearance .I started Chemotherapy last December and finished in the March . Taking Letrezole for ten years now and feeling pretty good . You will be amazed how strong you are and will get through this too . I felt talking about it helped me a lot and I tried to stay positive.

I do have the odd days of feeling low but generally life is back to normal . Take care xxx

Hi Jolamine 

I had my CT scan on Friday and was told I'd get my results this week but no call yet. I've also been told its a very fast growing cancer and I need chemo, then a mastectomy,  radiotherapy and some targeted tablets. I've not been given any more information,  I've no idea when this starts. I think the waiting is the worst.

Thanks so much for enquiring about me, I really appreciate it.  I hope everything is going well with you. X

Hello rumplestiltskin 

Thank you for replying! Thats really good to hear about your journey! I think your right, talking will help but I've just not told anyone yet, just my husband. I really need to know what the plan is and when it starts. Fingers crossed I hear soon. Xxx

Jay ho 

hope you are able to start your treatments soon lovely , we are all here to chat and help you along xx love Lara xxx 

Hi JayOh,

I am glad to hear that you have now had your CT scan and I am sure that you are desperate to get your results. I hope that you get your results before the end of the week. You are so right waiting in limbo like this is one of the hardest parts of our cancer journey. It sounds as if you are going to have a challenging few months ahead of you, but you'll get there. 

Please keep in touch and let us know how you get on. As you know, we are always here for you.

Kind regards,

Jolamine xx