How do you do the "waiting game"?

Yesterday when I heard the news, after my biopsy was taken, that on a scale of 1-5 they gave me a 4 for a probability that I had cancer I was really pragmatic and wanted to discuss all the possible options with the breast cancer nurse.  Today I just feel physically sick and on the brink of having a melt down.  

What hints do you have to distract yourself.  I have a 2-3 week wait for confirmation of the results.

Any advice appreciated.

Thank you.

Parents
  • Hi , I’m sorry that you are facing this. The wait is awful, and I empathise . My advice would just be to keep yourself as busy as you can , go out every day in the fresh air ,go for walks in fields or by the sea if you can. Be kind to yourself , treat yourself to a new lipstick or book ! I also found it useful to write down my feelings . There are helplines out there if you need a chat or feel overwhelmed and Maggie’s  can be a great support  too. I wish you well . 

Reply
  • Hi , I’m sorry that you are facing this. The wait is awful, and I empathise . My advice would just be to keep yourself as busy as you can , go out every day in the fresh air ,go for walks in fields or by the sea if you can. Be kind to yourself , treat yourself to a new lipstick or book ! I also found it useful to write down my feelings . There are helplines out there if you need a chat or feel overwhelmed and Maggie’s  can be a great support  too. I wish you well . 

Children