Hi Caroline sorry not replying sooner, hoped someone would reply nearer to your dad's diagnosis,. thought id let you know people do read messages but don't always reply . I've got advanced prostate cancer gone to lymph nodes spine ribs pelvis and a lung,I was diagnosed Feb 2016 .im hoping others reply to you soon . Family and friends get hit with cancer diagnosis as much if not more than the patient as they cannot do anything but watch and wait .

Billy