Hi all, I am 50, female, and have chosen to not have kids. Overall I'm pretty halthy, weight approx 8st 13, non smoker, rarely drink. On 15th February I was told that I had endometrial cancer but the kicker is, it was diagnose in NOVEMBER 2020 and yet they have only just realised.
I have a Mirena coil in due to hyperplasia with simple atypia but have had it changed once due to constant light bleeding. I also have fibroids, which I know can cause bleeding, any my surgeon told me that some people with the coil still have light bleeding. However they put another coil in on Novermer 2020 and did a scrape of the womb lining (I have this under GA as it's way too painful otherwise). They never called me for a follow up appointment and I foolishly didn't chase up for one. I foolishly assumed that because I'd not heard from them that everything was OK, but this was at the height of COVID with staffing issues everywhere - how could I be so stupid??
Fast Forward to summer 2020 and I'm having regular bleeding again. By November it's getting heavier and I also have a "presence" in the lower left abdomen - just a feeling, like I knew something was amiss. So I went to the docs and got an ultrasound referral. The ultrasound was in January and I had a blood test too, and I didn't hear anything back. AGAIN I assumed that everything was OK, though I did plan to chase them on the ultrasound.
Then out of the blue my GP called me and seemed to be in a mild panic, asking me questions about my symptoms and bleeding. She said she was going to escalate it, but did NOT say anything about cancer. So I was confused as to why she was in such a tizz. Then a letter comes through saying I was high priority due to the possibility of cancer and that I'd receive an appointment soon. Again I was puzzled as I'd not been told anything about cancer.
So I turned up at the hospital on 15th to be met with the surgeon who put my coil in and did the scrape, who proceeded to hand me a letter that pretty much said they'd made a massiver oversight, I had endometrial cancer, and the diagnosis was missed. The ONLY reason they found out about this is because when my GP was looking at my ultrasound, she noticed on my record that there was a diagnosis, and saw that nothing had been done. Now I know why she was in such a tizz.
The hospital has escalated this to their "Serious incident group" and they are investigating other procedures that took place in the same month in case more diagnosis have been missed. I am now scheduled to have another biopsy this coming Friday, again under GA.
I just can't believe it. If the coil was doing it's job I'd not have so much bleeding, and now I have this "presence" in my lower left abdomen. I'm terrified it's started to spread, I can't believe that massiver oversight the hospital has made. I kick myself for not contacting them about the follow up, but they should have contacted ME.
So now I have 5 more days until my biopsy to wonder if my life is about to fall apart. They mentioned me having an MRI too and I'd like one was soon as possible, even before the biopsy results, as I'm convinced something is going on in my abdomen. I am dreading hearing it could have spread to my bladder or bowel and I'll have to have various pee or poop bags for the rest of my life. And I'm kicking myself for not just asking for a hysterectomy as soon as I knew I had the hyperplasia. I nevr wanted kids, I don't need my uterus, and now it could conceivably kill me.
The cancer was at Grade 1 back in Nov 2020, who knows what Grade it's at now - the biopsy will find that out.
I will never trust the NHS again :(