Can they tell you have breast cancer without biopsy results?

Hi,

 

I went into clinic on Tuesday morning to have a lump checked, a lump that my doctor wasn't concerned about and didn't refer me for but my mum made me call back and demand to be referred. When I arrived in the clinic the lady who first checked me thought it was nothing to worry about, sent me for an ultrasound anyway (I'm only 30 so that was chosen over a mammogram), the sonograoher doing the ultrasound went and had a very quiet phone call over at her desk and said we've decided to send you for a mammogram too, so she done a biopsy and then sent me for a mammogram! After that I was sat waiting, got taken into a room with 3 people where they told me 'I'm sorry I told you not to worry but we are very concerned and very suspicious with what we've found' - que my breakdown as I genuinely thought I would be in and out with no issues at all! 
 

I was then assigned a breast care nurse who took me to a room and advised me that it is treatable and curable (amaizng of course) BUT my question is..... has anyone ever had this and then the biopsy has come back and said it's not cancerous? My breast care nurse was tellling me I should prepare and prepare my family etc so i feel like they were so sure but can they be that sure without the biopsy results? I feel absolutely sick to my stomach waiting for my results, I don't know what to do with myself and feel like im living in another world!

 

I guess i'm just trying to find any hope that they could be really wrong - can they really tell so much from ultrasounds and mammograms???? 
 

From a very anxious and scared mum of 2!

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  • Hi Mid30

    Firstly I'm so sorry that you are going through it, it's a dreadful shock isn't it. 
    I had a very similar experience to you in that I went to clinic thinking I had a cyst only to have mammogram, ultrasound and biopsies. I was also taken into a room with consultant, specialist nurse, Macmillan nurse and one other person although I can remember who that was. They asked me if I was still working, let me know my results would be about 2 weeks and I might need some time off work. Also said that next time I saw them it would be for a treatment plan and to bring someone with me. Macmillan nurse stayed behind and spoke to me some more. 
    i left with the impression that they feel it is suspicious but I am also aware that until the biopsy results are back it is not a done deal. I get my results next Wed 26th Jan.

    it is an impossible situation, you don't know either way. At the minute I am hoping for the best, expecting the worst. But also knowing whatever it is I will deal with it, as will you.

     

    sending you positive thoughts, I so hope that we both have better news than we hope 

    x

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  • Hi Mid30

    Firstly I'm so sorry that you are going through it, it's a dreadful shock isn't it. 
    I had a very similar experience to you in that I went to clinic thinking I had a cyst only to have mammogram, ultrasound and biopsies. I was also taken into a room with consultant, specialist nurse, Macmillan nurse and one other person although I can remember who that was. They asked me if I was still working, let me know my results would be about 2 weeks and I might need some time off work. Also said that next time I saw them it would be for a treatment plan and to bring someone with me. Macmillan nurse stayed behind and spoke to me some more. 
    i left with the impression that they feel it is suspicious but I am also aware that until the biopsy results are back it is not a done deal. I get my results next Wed 26th Jan.

    it is an impossible situation, you don't know either way. At the minute I am hoping for the best, expecting the worst. But also knowing whatever it is I will deal with it, as will you.

     

    sending you positive thoughts, I so hope that we both have better news than we hope 

    x

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  • Hi Meadowsweet

    I'm so sorry to hear that you are also going through a very similar situation, this part is just so hard! 

    I'm the same as you in regards to thinking just how can they be so sure, I think i'm just hanging on to any positivity from my appointment the other day (and there really wasn't much), I think I'm desperately scouring the internet for something or someone to tell me they could have it wrong but so far I haven't found any answers like that! 
     

    My appointment has actually been moved to today so I haven't really been to sleep, my doctors prescribed me something to help me sleep and that didn't even help, my anxiety is so bad! 
     

    I hope and pray that we both get some good results, whether that be cancer free or if it is present that it will be low grade and stage and we can get through it quickly.

     

    I'll update here with my results later today.

     

    Thinking of you x