There is not many people I can go to right now. I just need to vent how I feel.
We recently found out that my uncle stole every cent that was in my Grandmother's account and was empty by the time she had died. She passed away from cancer within 2 months of being diagnosed.
She had assisted him with his legal fees when he was going through his divorce. After my Grandfather died 3 years ago their house was repossessed because this uncle whom the mortgage belonged to (Grandparent's were emigrating to the US. He lived in the US so he placed the mortgage and they paid each month) didn't make payments. She effectively lost her home and was moved into my ex-aunt's Mothers house. She lost her independence and livelihood.
For all this time I thought my uncle to be caring and considerate and my Grandmother would support him. Her weakness was being a people pleaser. She would keep silent to keep the peace and she was incredibly motherly. She simply couldn't bear to see her any of her sons in pain.
His other two brothers had tried to tell her to stop bailing him out. She only received $35,000 from my Grandfather after he died. She would need all of this to keep herself afloat and my Uncle's legal fees were in the thousands. She would get annoyed at them and say they did not understand her and that she would never leave her son out helpless. I supported her because she had such strong convictions on this. Looking back, I wish, I wish, I wish I could have seen through him.
Last week my other Uncle went by and found out that this Uncle was withdrawing hundreds of dollars out her account A DAY. Not just this but somehow, someway my other Uncle was tarred as the materialistic one, the one who didn't want her around and because he has a very successful career it became easy to tar him with that brush.
I want to turn back time and warn her and awaken her to the hell she lived in. She had no peace, nothing. She was left in the house for months and months. She wouldn't ask to be taken out because she didn't want to burden my uncle.
I am so unbelievably angry, horrified, shocked, disgusted and any other word that can fit under the umbrella of those.
This 'man', this parasite sent me a silly video yesterday, a weird video, of him flailing about and making strange sounds with his voice, as if he was going a bit mad.
I can't believe this person exploited my beautiful Grandmother like this.
May she rest in peace now that she is away from her abuser :'(((