i lost my nan and step dad, when i was pregnant, to cancer. they never met my daughter. Then 2years ago, cancer took m mother. would just like to talk to people
Hi there ...it always helps if you can find the courage to talk .. for some it's so hard and so just start off slowly like you have ... you have lost so family that you love and sometimes we put those feelings somewhere deep inside and close the door ... then every time we loose someone else we do the same , until late one day you open the door to put another feeling in and it's full and everything tumbles out and we drown in all those feelings ... so talking about one thing at a time, sort out how you feel even if you just write it down ... process how it makes you feel , put some logic on it ... why..who...how it made you feel... then if you can do something about it ... do it... if there's nothing you can do, you have to accept it .. this is a great place to start ... so sending you a big hug .. be kind to yourself first ... chrisie xx
Hi there ...it always helps if you can find the courage to talk .. for some it's so hard and so just start off slowly like you have ... you have lost so family that you love and sometimes we put those feelings somewhere deep inside and close the door ... then every time we loose someone else we do the same , until late one day you open the door to put another feeling in and it's full and everything tumbles out and we drown in all those feelings ... so talking about one thing at a time, sort out how you feel even if you just write it down ... process how it makes you feel , put some logic on it ... why..who...how it made you feel... then if you can do something about it ... do it... if there's nothing you can do, you have to accept it .. this is a great place to start ... so sending you a big hug .. be kind to yourself first ... chrisie xx
The title of your post resonated with me as over the years I have lost twelve family members to cancer plus I have had and recovered from prostate cancer. So I do understand how your feeling.
Chrissy has given some good advice as always. This is a very friendly forum with lots of understanding people who are east to talk to.
