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Hi, I was diegnosed with Brest cancer in 2009 and although I have had all my treatments and have been told I am clear I am pardoned that cancer will take me away from my family. I feel so lost inside myself as I have always and always will be the corner stone of my little family, but I get soooo lonely inside myself with only me and my fear of the BIG C hanging over me. I sometime feel like giving up but, how can I, I have three wonderful grandchildren whom I want to see graduate, get married and have a family of their own BUT I can't see this happening. Please someone help me xxx

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    Hi, I can understand how you are feeling, because everyone who has been diagnosed with cancer will always have this doubt at the back of their minds.

    But you are a survivor, you have come out the other side with positive results. You are a strong woman and you can learn to live your life again and be very happy.

    Enjoy your grandchildren, they are little treasures that are sent to enrich our lives.

    Sending you hugs x

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    Hi Pussycat2,
    You have come through having cancer and are OK. It would be silly to spoil these precious extra years worrying about a reccurence. I am 9 years on and I still rejoice in being alive. If I  have a problem I go and see my doctor to check its not cancer related. It would be silly not to, but to worry all the time means you are not making the most of what you have.  Perhaps some counselling will help you handle your fears.  I wish you well.
    Regards
    Colin

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