Feeling very tearful all the time

hi all i was diagnosed with breast cancer last year and had a lumpectomy and sentinol node biopsy. i finished my radiotherapy in august and have now been signed off from christie hospital, but i feel more emotional now and keep crying at the slightest things lately. i dont know if its the worry of my next mammogram or just the uncertainty of the cancer coming back thats making me feel this way. does anyone else have these problems? is it normal? 

  • Hi kimw

    Welcome to Cancer Chat.

    Many people posting here say that they feel worse after treatment finishes. Some say they think it is because when you are going through treatment, you are focusing on getting through it but when it ends you have time to reflect on what has happened to you.

    If you would like to speak to our nurses about how you are feeling, please give them a ring on freephone: 0808 800 4040 from Monday to Friday, 9am to 5pm. They will be happy to talk to you.

    Please come and share your feelings whenever you find it helpful,

    Best wishes

    Jane

     

  • Hi Kim, I know exactly how you feel, I had the same treatment which ended at the beginning of June. As Jane says, this is very common and yes, it is normal. I have just completed a Moving Forward course run at my local hospital by Breast Cancer Care which deals with just these issues. As well as the talks given by various experts on everything from Lymphoedema to relationships to the fear of recurrance, it was so comforting to be with a group of people who are all going through the same thing and really get how you feel. There are no easy answers sadly but knowing and chatting to others has helped me realise that slowly but surely I am getting there. Hope this has helped and I am happy to chat anytime. Take care  Sue xx

  • Thank you ladies x this chat site has helped me so much already x