Hi I'm Janet, I was diagnosed with left tongue based cancer last year, which had spread to a lymph node in my neck, stage 3 cancer. After chemo and six weeks of radiotherapy I am now in remission. I'm having the usual two monthly check ups with oncologist etc. im getting on with my life and feeling fine, but worried it will come back. Can't seem to get this worry from my head. Is this normal? I asked why me when I was told, and the answer was "bloody bad luck" I've never smoked and only drink on special occasions.