Hi Debsydora1960

i think I know at least a bit about what your going through. My friends and family are pretty much the same thinking that because I’m in remission that I’m back to normal and everything is fine.  They find it difficult to understand why I cancel going to events because I’m having a particularly bad day (and I’ve cancelled quite a lot) and it makes planning going forward almost impossible.  I find it frustrating and at times upsetting.  Yes it’s great that I’m ‘clear’ but I am far from back to ‘normal’ and no one seems prepared to say whether I will ever be any better than I am now.   It must be especially hard for your being your dad’s carer.  I’m so sorry for what you’re going through.   Perhaps linking up online might help?  Let me know. 
take care

Fernie 

Hi Debsydora1960

i think I know at least a bit about what your going through. My friends and family are pretty much the same thinking that because I’m in remission that I’m back to normal and everything is fine.  They find it difficult to understand why I cancel going to events because I’m having a particularly bad day (and I’ve cancelled quite a lot) and it makes planning going forward almost impossible.  I find it frustrating and at times upsetting.  Yes it’s great that I’m ‘clear’ but I am far from back to ‘normal’ and no one seems prepared to say whether I will ever be any better than I am now.   It must be especially hard for your being your dad’s carer.  I’m so sorry for what you’re going through.   Perhaps linking up online might help?  Let me know. 
take care

Fernie 

Hi Fernie would be lovely to chat online, people just don’t understand what we went through and even though in remission still going through, if your on Facebook be nice to chat x

Hi Deborah ,  I’m now ‘following’ you on FB but it didn’t invite me to add you as a friend - I’ll try again.  If you can send a friend request that might work?   It’s good to meet up! x