I need to find some care for my husband, who has several serious health issues and the early signs of Dementia. I have advanced breast cancer which has spread and there are no options available to me. I have to make sure that my husband is taken care of when the inevitable happens. This means that I will not be posting here any more, I have got to use what energy I have left to make sure my hubby is going to be okay without me. I would just like to say a big THANK YOU to everyone who has been so kind to me and helped lift my mood on my darkest days. It is a lovely community of folks on here and there are several people who have been an inspiration, in particular Billygoat, RoseStarBlue, Dor, MargaretMary and of course the nurses. If I have missed anyone out, please accept my apologies. It is time for me to move on, and once more THANK YOU, because as my lovely Mother used to say, if someone has taken the time to help you, even in a small way, a thank you costs nothing. Good luck everyone, Violet, xxx