Unsupportive employer

I am waiting for a referral to the breast clinic for a lump, appointment is 2 weeks today.  Obviously I am fearing the worst and am naturally an anxious person and I'm probably jumping the gun panicking about the below, but I'm more of a planner and need to think ahead.

My employer last week put me on an absence management plan, where I have to reduce my absence levels over the next 3 months and it will be reviewed after those 3 months are up.

My only absences in the 12 month rolling peroid they are referring to were 19 days last August when I had my thyroid removed (all supported by medical certificates and a huge scar as evidence right across my neck) and 2 days last month when I caught a sickness bug off my children.  I've worked here for 19 years and my sickness record has been excellent, as have my appraisals and standard of work.

Obviously now I'm panicking that if I have cancer I'm going to be off work, fail the objective of reducing my absence levels and I will lose my job.  Our HR department staff rigidly follow rules and procedures and lack any compassion (or common sense, from my perspective).

Can they do this?  I'm not sure where I should turn for advice.

  • Sorry to hear that Beatrice.  It's so unjust isn't it, I'm fuming as well as stressed.

    I can certainly sympathise on the anxiety / stress.  I lost my mum to brain cancer 4 years ago, and my dad was diagnosed with skin cancer half way through my mum's illness (thankfully he survived) and it was a plate spinning exercise for 18 months.  I went to work throughout it all although I cried most days, and now I look back on it and think I kept going and going through the worst thing imaginable, and now they treat me like this for having an operation and a sickness bug.

    Paul, thanks for your replies.  I think I know deep down (through the anger) that they can't sack me, but thank you for your fighting talk!  I think I'm more hurt that they would treat me like this in the first place as it feels totally undeserved.

  • Yes ime afraid thats reality of the workplace today we seem to get young people jumping strait from uni and they haven't a clue how to treat people ime retired now ive seen lots of employers and horrible bosses its life dont give them a second thought regards .p