Hi, I'm new to the chat and very nervous. My dad has lung cancer and was told on Monday that his cancer has spread to his stomach and he wouldn't survive surgery. I  am devastated. I am trying to come to terms with the diagnosis. Although it's not a priority, but I am getting married in 3 weeks time. I am heartbroken enough that dad won't be able to see me get married, but do I cancel the wedding or still go ahead with it? It's only a small registry office wedding with a reception in a pub but people have booked flights and hotels etc. I am heartbroken. I have spoken to Macmillan who have been great. Dad is going into a hospice this week. I am so upset and don't know how to cope? I've been off work this week but feel under pressure to go back.