Hard to cope

i always thought that I could cope with what life could throw at me but my old man has the big c and he has deteriated really quick We have been told he can not be cured I find it hard to speak with the family because I don't want them to see me break down it's the hardest thing I've ever been through I don't know what to do 

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  • Hi

    My mum passed away 3 weeks ago today and she was only diagnosed the 7th Feb and givem 4-6weeks and passed away on the 10th only 3 days later.  

    Cancer is cruel but time is precious, you have to accept what is happening and make the most of everyday minute because time is not on your side when you are sick, i understand how you don't want family to see you upset but they will be the ones supporting you at the hard times ahead so talk to them and share your feelings, it won't change your situation but it may make u feel a bit of relief to tell someone how you are feeling about it all.

    Take photo's and make any memories while you can and cherish what time u have.

    I'm so sorry for you its not nice atall im still not grieving properly as i think im in the shock stage because it all happened so fast 

    Zoe 

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  • Hi

    My mum passed away 3 weeks ago today and she was only diagnosed the 7th Feb and givem 4-6weeks and passed away on the 10th only 3 days later.  

    Cancer is cruel but time is precious, you have to accept what is happening and make the most of everyday minute because time is not on your side when you are sick, i understand how you don't want family to see you upset but they will be the ones supporting you at the hard times ahead so talk to them and share your feelings, it won't change your situation but it may make u feel a bit of relief to tell someone how you are feeling about it all.

    Take photo's and make any memories while you can and cherish what time u have.

    I'm so sorry for you its not nice atall im still not grieving properly as i think im in the shock stage because it all happened so fast 

    Zoe 

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