struggling with financial independence

Hi, 

This is my first time posting anything but I am having an emotional week, 3 weeks ago after fighting since 2013 I was told the cancer has gone to my brain, nothing left but palliative care, so 2 weeks of rollercoaster emotions but handled well, now things are settling down I am feeling totally like a nobody, everything has been taken away from me, my health,my independence, my opinions, my ability to drive, my husband is making things so difficult by watching every penny I spend, I can't go on the internet and buy a gift for my grandson with an interrogation, this silly matter is causing me massive stress and I don't need it, I will be gone soon and then he doesn't need to be concerned about me spending a little money!!! Making me sad, angry,resentful and I am sure he doesn't need it any more than I do! Is anyone else having similar problems???

 

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  • Hello islandgirlbda,

    I noticed you hadn't yet received a reply so I wanted to make sure I would bump your message back to the top of the forum so that others who may be facing a similar situation can see it and share their thoughts on this with you.

    Poor you. This is a very difficult situation for you to be in and I do hope that this forum will bring you a little comfort. I am sure you will meet some wonderfully supportive friends here at a time when you need it the most.

    Best wishes,

    Lucie, Cancer Chat Moderator

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  • Hello islandgirlbda,

    I noticed you hadn't yet received a reply so I wanted to make sure I would bump your message back to the top of the forum so that others who may be facing a similar situation can see it and share their thoughts on this with you.

    Poor you. This is a very difficult situation for you to be in and I do hope that this forum will bring you a little comfort. I am sure you will meet some wonderfully supportive friends here at a time when you need it the most.

    Best wishes,

    Lucie, Cancer Chat Moderator

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