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My cancer has returned for the 4th time

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I'm really struggling at the minute. My cancer has come back for the 4th time in 7 years and I'm due to have surgery next week. I feel so useless. I feel so sad all the time. My marriage has fallen apart because of the stress. I'm scared for my children. Since my husband left I feel so lonely and scared to tell my family how I feel because I want to be strong for them. 

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    Hi,

    I feel for you, I really do.  But please talk to your family about how you feel.  They won't want you to be strong for them, they will want to help you. Failing that, talk to your doctor or nurse and see if you can get some professional help for your mental health. It is just as important as your physical health.  I wish I could help, but I can only imagine how you feel. 
    Take care, I wish you all the best for next week.  I really hope you find some support among your family and friends.

    Christine xxx

     

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    Hi,

    Please don't feel alone, we are here for you. I'm assuming you have melanoma due to your forum name? 

    Angie (Stage 3 melanoma patient since 2009)

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