Hi there ... so sorry you've had to join us breast cancer lasses ( and lads) it's a pretty scary place to be ..

It's hard enough with someone by your side ...  and Looks like you've had it hard even befor your diagnosis.... now saying that and trying to look on both sides... I have been on both, and I think it's way harder watching someone we love go through it ....

Just maybe he couldn't  handle so much as its emotionaly and physically draining at times ... and maybe he got overwhelmed.... i found taking everything one day at a time, and not looking ahead helped ... and hopefully you have others to hold your hand through this ... 

Life throws so many curve balls and keeps trying to knock us down, and stay down ... so yea, feel all those emotions ... cuss or scream ... then get back up, and concentrate on kicking cancers butt.... you've been through so much ... you can do this ... your stronger then you know ... cancer likes it when we feel weak, then it feels stronger ... so don't  let  it ....  get your vertual boxing gloves on and take it on ... 

Your not alone.... there's lots of us here ... you can chat ... rant .... or whatever on here ... and it  helps writting it down ...  sending you a vertual hug.... Chrissie x

Hi there ... so sorry you've had to join us breast cancer lasses ( and lads) it's a pretty scary place to be ..

It's hard enough with someone by your side ...  and Looks like you've had it hard even befor your diagnosis.... now saying that and trying to look on both sides... I have been on both, and I think it's way harder watching someone we love go through it ....

Just maybe he couldn't  handle so much as its emotionaly and physically draining at times ... and maybe he got overwhelmed.... i found taking everything one day at a time, and not looking ahead helped ... and hopefully you have others to hold your hand through this ... 

Life throws so many curve balls and keeps trying to knock us down, and stay down ... so yea, feel all those emotions ... cuss or scream ... then get back up, and concentrate on kicking cancers butt.... you've been through so much ... you can do this ... your stronger then you know ... cancer likes it when we feel weak, then it feels stronger ... so don't  let  it ....  get your vertual boxing gloves on and take it on ... 

Your not alone.... there's lots of us here ... you can chat ... rant .... or whatever on here ... and it  helps writting it down ...  sending you a vertual hug.... Chrissie x

Thank you - I only had the surgery 29th June so just over a week ago. I had been taking one day at a time and not planning too much. I was feeling really strong and was very much let's get on with this. The it just feels like a real kick in the teeth. With everything else that has happened I thought just this time I will be cared for instead for caring or everyone else. Nope