I have recently been diagnosed with BC - a month ago. I gave my partner the opportunity to bail before everything started but they insisted they wanted to be there for me and stay by my side. One week after the surgery he dumps me. Why do they do that? It upsets me because I have had to go through so much on my own. My first husband died when my son was 15 months old. The second husband was abusive so had to get out. Met this lovely caring person who seem just right and they have left me standing to face this on my own. As others say you want someone who is not family, who loves you and all that comes with the package. Wished he had had the balls to tell me at the beginning so I could get my head round it.
Feel so let down
