I had prostrate cancer not fast growing but still their.Ihad it removed a few complications but successful.I found it uncomfortable with the cafferter,went home more pain but the pain killers and my angle wife I got over that.When thy took the caffeter out I leaked ,great 65 and *** my self.Before the op I was doing the floor exercises,did it make any difference ,,yes I think so .I am three week in to this experience I can hold my wee  90% ofthe time still a few spills bit of blood.As most men I am doing probly to much pelvic floor muscles ..Like a lot of men I try to do to much,still ware a nappy but will try a pad very soon .I hope to get dry but if I don't it won't be for lack of trying .Good luck to anyone who read this and don't give up.