Hey Simon,

This is exactly the situation I find myself in at the moment.  49 y/o man with similar situation (left sided lymph not right). I've also had an exploratory surgery to check tonsil mass is operable / biopsy. 
 

I am incredibly nervous about what is coming up - presumably a big op and then chemo/radio so I'd be super grateful for any pointers/tips/reassurance.

Thanks,

James

Hi it's Fooman I am 55 and I have just been told I have Tonsil Cancer and I have a large Lyph Node on the left side of my neck. I have had my bloods taken last Friday and I am waiting for 3 more tests. I should have these in the next 2 weeks fingers crossed. The had all ready told me that I need Radiation Therapy and medication. To be honest I am very freighted but I am trying to stay positive. I am still working but at work I find my mind running away with me.Good Luck with your treatment I am sorry I can't give you more advice. Take care

Hi it's Fooman I am 55 and I have just been told I have Tonsil Cancer and I have a large Lyph Node on the left side of my neck. I have had my bloods taken last Friday and I am waiting for 3 more tests. I should have these in the next 2 weeks fingers crossed. The had all ready told me that I need Radiation Therapy and medication. To be honest I am very freighted but I am trying to stay positive. I am still working but at work I find my mind running away with me.Good Luck with your treatment I am sorry I can't give you more advice. Take care

I'm all about finding some buddies to give each other some support - message me.

Hi I will keep in touch with you and keep you informed with my Treatment nice one 

I forgot to mention a piece of advice I was given that I found resonated with me and was very useful.  

Take it one day at a time, in your own way.

Bon courage.

Hello everyone I have just received my appointments for MRI scan and then a biopsy. My MRI scan is on Monday 11.10.20/21. Then Tuesday 12.10.20/21 I have to have a PCR test. This then follows on Friday 15.10.20/21 with my biopsy. The problem is I have a temperature and do not feel very well. In my line of work because I work with vulnerable adults I have to take a lateral flow test every Monday morning and then Thursdays I take both tests the later flow and the PCR. I took the lateral flow this morning and it said negative. I took my own temperature and it was 48.8 very high. I am frustrated that because of my high temperature I will not be able to have my MRI or my biopsy. This then Will delay my appointments. Good luck to all of you kind regards Fooman 

I hope it all falls into place as soon as possible. The delays and setbacks can feel worrying and frustrating.

I know due to Covid, you probably won't have seen many other patients in the waiting rooms for your appointments, cancer patients are always on a particular day, but I drew strength from the incredible composure and dignity they all showed, people at all stages of the disease and at all stages of their treatment.

Wishing you much fortitude.

Umit

Hello Umit thank you for your message, I am resting at the moment as I have just tested positive  for Covid 19. This is frustrating as I was to start all my tests this week. However I am eating well and I am going to be patient and stay focused. Kind regards Fooman 

Sorry to hear that.

But I'm glad to hear that you're staying patient & focused.

One day at a time. In your own way.