No more treatment - need some words of wisdom

On Friday I am due to have my last palliative  chemo session for stage 4 cancer which has spread to my lymph nodes, bones, and lungs. I am now waiting for the results of my scans to see how well the treatment has worked.  

I had a review with my oncologist today and as always she has left me feeling like I have no hope.

I was told that after the chemo I will not be given anymore treatment unless my pain and symptoms return.  I understand that the chemo was only intended to shrink the tumours enough to control my symptoms but I was in so much pain before starting treatment that I am finding it hard to accept that now I have to sit and waite for the cancer to make me ill again before anything else will be done.  

I have been really positive throughout my treatment apart from one little blip last year and the wonderful people on this forum helped pick me up. Am hoping that you will be able to work your magic again.

Georgina 

 

 

  • Hi there ...

    Oh bless ya, this cancer is really crule ... your now where one day all of us may be ... I can only tell you what I'd do if my cancer comes to that ...

    I'd try and make every day a memory day .. I'd do as much as I could fit in while I can .. I'd look at every day as a bonus , not think every day could be the last ... then we live every day ... I'm sure cancer wants us  to lay down and just stop and spend every day scared ... well none of us cancer or not  knows if they have tomorrow... anyone could be gone in the blink of an eye ...

    My mum went with a sudden heart attack .. she called me one Monday morning... at 5.20 that afternoon she was gone.... now I'm in that cancer journey ... and I have lived every day as that bonus and if it takes me tomorrow,  I'll have packed a lifetime of memories into this time ... and as I go , I'll stick two fingers up to cancer  .... it will not take one more day then it has too ..so I'd make the most of that time with no treatment ... no side effects ... take each day by the short and curlies ... and join me in sticking two fingers up to cancer....  sending you a vertual hug... Chrissie  

  • Hi Georgina, I'm on palliative care since February 2016, stage 4. I've prostate Cancer gone to lymph nodes, spine, ribs, pelvis and a lung, i understand what you are going through. I have cemo when neaded. And on permanent hormone therapy. Without treatment i would not have got to Christmas 2016 so mine has definitely worked.  

    Billy