3 years on and going strong!

Hi all,

So it was 3 years ago this week that I started on the cancer train.  It began with what seemed an innocuous ultrasound on my neck to examine an odd little lump and quickly snowballed into a diagnosis of a very rare and little known skin cancer that had already spread to my lungs.  I was told they didn't know how to treat it and it seemed like a death sentence - an absolute torrid time.  I thought my life was over!

3 years on and life is pretty much back to normal! I have a few scars, some itchy skin and plenty of regular hospital visits but thanks to a clinical trial that I have been on now for 2 years I am very comfortably living with cancer and enjoying the everyday mundanity of life with just a bit more appreciation! 

I will never forget the desperation of those first few weeks after diagnosis when I would spend hours searching forums like this for messages of hope from others desperate for some positivity.  I wanted to share my story in the hope that someone reading this now who is in that situation where I was, can see that it's possible to get through the darkest of times so never give up 

  • Hi RLp,

    I was diagnosed about 8 or 9 weeks ago,have 2 chemos over me, hopefully my 3rd this week all going well with bloods, just turned 50 last may and I'm devestated,my biggest issue at the moment is Anxiety,Stress and panic Attacks which are cruel, my counselor has told me this is normal as I'm not long diagnosed, and it's like dealing with greaf ,I'm praying so hard for this overwhelmed fear to leave me,phicially I'm doing fine, wishing you a speedy recovery and will keep you in my prayers,

    Love,Ange.

  • Hi hippochick in some ways I'm a bit like you I was diagnosed Feb 2016 uncurable. Had some treatment and living with my uninvited guest. Having a normal life apart from odd treatment trips.. Hope things keep going well, best wishes......Billy 

  • Hi Ange, it’s really tough isn’t it but try and stay calm and strong, easier said than done I know. I had my surgery on Tuesday and got home last night. I’m feeling better than I expected to and I was so anxious about the op. I’ve another wait now for biopsy results but fingers crossed...

    Take care

    Ruth x