Hi

i have recurrent Prostate cancer and now incureable . I'm not yet on further treatment but that's just a matter of time. I am constantly down but not just because of the cancer. My daughters in a controlling relationship which we can't do anything about and no matter how much we've tried haven't seen her or our grandchildren for over a year. My son seems to be in a downward spiral for various reasons. My poor wife has to deal with all this. 
So I am seriously considering not having any future treatment to let nature take its course. I do sincerely believe that will help as whilst my wife will obviously grieve, that day is going to come anyway. She can then focus on my son and daughter without having to worry about me. I know this may seem selfish but I really believe it will help. It may also give my daughter the message that she needs to speak to her mum. 
My question is how long will I survive without treatment. My last PSA 4 months ago was 0.12. I am classed as high risk

Sorry for the negative post but this is a real choice I am considering 

Thank you