hello, i hope you are all as well as you could be. 

i would appreciate some advice. my father in law (who i love) has been in pooor health for some years, has recently been diagnosed with terminal cancer. my husbands siblings have had a fractured relationship with me. however, since my dad in laws diagnosis, i have been trying my very best to do good by inlaw and my father inlaw aswell as my amazing husband. i have been in a siutuation where i have looked after (helped look after) my own family members through this awful time but this is my first time as an ‘outsider’ i am finding this so difficult and i dont know what to say or do. does anyone have any advice? my husband is my world and i dont want to upset him or his family. x