Hi Dez

im so sorry to hear that. My husband is in your situation and partners often get lost in this scary time. I know this sounds a bit morbid, but I have written all my wishes , funeral and things I want my family to remember, in a book. I don’t know how you feel about this but I had a huge sense of relief that my husband and children know exactly what to do when the time comes. I have made it uplifting, with lots of great memories of our life together. I try and enjoy the time I have left but don’t feel the need to have a bucket list. Please talk to someone, as you need support too. I really hope your wife can just enjoy each day. Once you accept it, you will be more at peace. Bless you both xx