Tonsil cancer and recovery, my story so far.......

Tonsil cancer and recovery, my story so far.......

I discovered a small lump on the left hand side of my neck, just under my jaw, sort of gland area in May 2018. I assumed it was a swollen gland, but when it didn't go away after approx. 2 weeks, I went to my doctor. He wasn't overly concerned, but said it should be investigated if it was still there after 3 weeks, which it was. I went back to my doctor and he referred me to an ENT clinic. I underwent various tests, blood test, ultrasound, biopsy, CT scan and pet scan and all of the results were inconclusive, the doctors were adamant that the lump was harmless, however they would have to remove the lump. The operation was a success and a 4.5cm lump was removed, one week later I was told that it was cancer, a secondary cancer with an unknown origin. A second operation was required to find the origin, so my tonsils were removed, a small piece from the base of my tongue and all lymph nodes from the left hand side of my neck. This operation was much more complex, took around 4 hours and recovery was very difficult to say the least. Around a week later again I was told the cancer had originated in my left tonsil (HPV+) and found in a further 4 lymph nodes. No trace of cancer in my tongue thankfully and the lymph nodes with cancer were directly surrounding my tonsil and had not spread further down my neck. Around 40 lymph nodes were removed in total. I was told I would need 6 weeks of radiotherapy.  Which, quite frankly was the worst news ever, based on the possible/likely side effects, and not forgetting that horrible mask. I was to have a high dose of radiation to the left hand side of my neck and a lower dose to the right. I postponed my treatment until after christmas and at this very moment I finished my treatment just over 6 weeks ago. The treatment was difficult and I felt side effects almost immediately, my saliva thickened up and my taste changed very quickly. I managed to eat the whole way through and even now without too much pain, obviously with a lot of medication. I am on a fairly strict, bland diet so not to aggravate my throat and ulcers. I started getting ulcers towards the end of my treatment which are only just clearing up now, but over the past few days managed to get oral thrush too.  I get quite alot of pain in my jaw/gum that goes up to my ear, which is really painful at night, but have eventually found a pain killer to help that. The mucous towards the end of my treatment got pretty bad and is only just subsiding. My taste is quite good already and saliva slowly getting better. I am convinced that I have faired better than most throughout the treatment because of the lower dose of treatment to the right hand side of my neck. I had no internal side effects on that side whatsover, just slight burning on the exterior. The left hand side of my neck burned quite badly in the end, then scabbed, then peeled, over already fragile skin due to the previous operations, but it did heal quickly. I am of course still healing and still very much in recovery right now, but I'm hoping things will still get better. Looking forward to my first packet of crisps and sweeties and of course some alcohol........

I thought I would share my story in the hope that I can help someone else, or give other tonsil cancer patients hope and be able to give some friendly advice if needed.  I am 38 years young, diagnosed at 37 if that is of any interest.

Best wishes to you all x

  • Hello Peter.

    Thank you for my first reply!!

    Tomorrow at 11.45 I discover  what my PET scan shows. I am so hoping that my cancer is confined to just the left tonsil and one left node. After reading your post and others I feel calmer that there can be a good outcome and am much more aware now if what to expect but I  am sat here on my own waiting for my Hubby to come home from work and I am thinking the worst. Every twinge and ache I feel I think it must have spread.

    They hope to operate on 15th and then give radiotherapy.

    I have not broken the news to my parents yet. We are supposed to be going to Scotland for a week next month. Do you know if its possible to take a break from the treatment?

    Nice to be in touch.

    Thank you

    Sharon

     

  • Hi Sharon this is hazel I am 2 years post radiotherapy for tonsil cancer with several effected lymph nodes. Welcome to the club non of us want to be in. I have a blog  where I detail my experiences 

    Www.radioactiveraz.wordpress.com. We've all been there frightened of the future and the unknown I was 61 when diagnosed . Are you h p v + do you know yet. ? It's doable treatment I am a wimp I did it you can do. Send friend request if you want to chat 

    hazel xxdont be scared tonsil cancer is eminently curable treatmenyv hard but if I can u can xx

  • Sharon in a word No breaks once treatment starts it's all go. If u have a break up start again not to be advised.  Ask about delaying start if you must but think hard before doing so. Once planning is in motion it's all go 

    hazel 

  • Thank you Hazel. Is the radiotherapy every day?

  • Awww thank you so much, best wishes to you and everyone else here too.  It's been just over 2 years since my official diagnosis and approximately a year and a half since I finished my treatment and I feel so much better than I ever could have imagined.  I have regained all of the weight that I lost and feel so strong and proud, some things have changed, but not all for the worst, and the things that have changed are absolutely manageable.  I'm not sure where you are in your journey, but you got this, stay strong  

  • Yes Monday to Friday daily plus if you are having chemo that's either weekly or in my case day 1 and 21 I had 35 radiotherapy sessions and 2 out if planned 3 chemo xc

  • Hi Peter, sounds like recovery is going very well for you, so pleased to hear it  

  • Thank you for your inspirational story. I wish you all the best with your continued recovery.

     

  • Hi Sharon 

    As Hazel has stated there are no breaks to the treatment course , the radiation builds up in your body each day and continues even after the treatment ends and this is what makes it so effective . I was told if I missed a days treatment I would have to have 2 the following day which isn't advisable . I had the primary on my left tonsil and this had spread to 4 other areas in my neck , to the left side of my neck was a

    visible lump around 5 cm long after the first week of treatment this lump had completely disappeared which was a huge boost . So don't miss any treatments , do everything the health care professionals tell you to do and you will be fine . 
     

    best wishes 

    Peter 

  • Thanks Peter.

    Going in on Tuesday for op.Removal of tonsil and one lymph. Did you have a PET scan to see if it had spread to other parts of body?  Apart from left tonsil and one neck lymph they reckon it is contained and PET showed no spread but I am sat here mythering about all sorts of twinges.some days feel on top of the world. Positive. Even kaugh. Today feel anxious and teary. Guess that's natural.

    Getting nervous. Nice to receive another post from you.

    Best wishes

    Sharon