Tonsil cancer and recovery, my story so far.......

Tonsil cancer and recovery, my story so far.......

I discovered a small lump on the left hand side of my neck, just under my jaw, sort of gland area in May 2018. I assumed it was a swollen gland, but when it didn't go away after approx. 2 weeks, I went to my doctor. He wasn't overly concerned, but said it should be investigated if it was still there after 3 weeks, which it was. I went back to my doctor and he referred me to an ENT clinic. I underwent various tests, blood test, ultrasound, biopsy, CT scan and pet scan and all of the results were inconclusive, the doctors were adamant that the lump was harmless, however they would have to remove the lump. The operation was a success and a 4.5cm lump was removed, one week later I was told that it was cancer, a secondary cancer with an unknown origin. A second operation was required to find the origin, so my tonsils were removed, a small piece from the base of my tongue and all lymph nodes from the left hand side of my neck. This operation was much more complex, took around 4 hours and recovery was very difficult to say the least. Around a week later again I was told the cancer had originated in my left tonsil (HPV+) and found in a further 4 lymph nodes. No trace of cancer in my tongue thankfully and the lymph nodes with cancer were directly surrounding my tonsil and had not spread further down my neck. Around 40 lymph nodes were removed in total. I was told I would need 6 weeks of radiotherapy.  Which, quite frankly was the worst news ever, based on the possible/likely side effects, and not forgetting that horrible mask. I was to have a high dose of radiation to the left hand side of my neck and a lower dose to the right. I postponed my treatment until after christmas and at this very moment I finished my treatment just over 6 weeks ago. The treatment was difficult and I felt side effects almost immediately, my saliva thickened up and my taste changed very quickly. I managed to eat the whole way through and even now without too much pain, obviously with a lot of medication. I am on a fairly strict, bland diet so not to aggravate my throat and ulcers. I started getting ulcers towards the end of my treatment which are only just clearing up now, but over the past few days managed to get oral thrush too.  I get quite alot of pain in my jaw/gum that goes up to my ear, which is really painful at night, but have eventually found a pain killer to help that. The mucous towards the end of my treatment got pretty bad and is only just subsiding. My taste is quite good already and saliva slowly getting better. I am convinced that I have faired better than most throughout the treatment because of the lower dose of treatment to the right hand side of my neck. I had no internal side effects on that side whatsover, just slight burning on the exterior. The left hand side of my neck burned quite badly in the end, then scabbed, then peeled, over already fragile skin due to the previous operations, but it did heal quickly. I am of course still healing and still very much in recovery right now, but I'm hoping things will still get better. Looking forward to my first packet of crisps and sweeties and of course some alcohol........

I thought I would share my story in the hope that I can help someone else, or give other tonsil cancer patients hope and be able to give some friendly advice if needed.  I am 38 years young, diagnosed at 37 if that is of any interest.

Best wishes to you all x

  • Thanks for the message Deb67 , this forum has been a huge help all the way through . It’s great reading about people like you who are quite a long way past treatment and doing so well it’s very reassuring to say the least . Although I got the good news regarding the 3 month post treatment scan on Wednesday it only really sunk in yesterday that the treatment had worked , it felt a bit surreal on the day . 

    Thanks again. 

  • Thanks Hazel , and thanks for the advice early on post treatment when I didn’t feel anything would ever improve .This process is a tough journey and during those first weeks after treatment finished I could never have imagined I would be where I am now . It’s amazing what the body and mind can endure ....

  • No problem Peter pleased to have been able to help. 

    Yes our bodies are Marvellous at what weput them through and come out at the other end

    Hazel x

  • Hello everyone, 

     

    I hope you dont mind me joining the conversation. I posted separately but haven't recieved any responses.

    My partner is week 9, after 5 rounds of chemo and 6 x 5 day cycles of RT for HPV positive tonsil cancer, including 1 lymph node.

    He hit a wall at week 5, started vomiting after uding PEG for food. He was admitted at week 7 when it progressed to vomiting blood, all food was stopped to see if it was a sensitized stomach. No real conclusion was made. Hes home now and week 9. Still not eating by mouth, apart from a couple of teaspoons of yoghurt.  Hes painfully thin, severe pain on swallowing, feeding slowly and gently through the PEG. Hes still on liquid morphine 30mg x 2 a day for pain. 

    I'm curious to know if anyone was similar at week 9 and how long it took to be able to progress on to food rather than the PEG. His mucus is still very thick and constant. He uses a nebulisor up to 6 times a day and deflucan mouth wash. Any tips for improving would be great.

    Apologies for invading your conversation but I would love to hear from others.

     

  • RHi Kit kat

    welcome to the club no one want to join. Well done on hubby reachingvweek 9. It really is how long is a piece of string scenario. I am 15 month post  radiotherapy for tonsil cancer I didn’t have a  peg but week 4 into treatment I had nasal tube fitted. It’s was removed 6 weeks later I was still on Ensure high calorie supplements for at least stc3 months interspersed with morsels if goid. 

    I have a blog www. Radioactiveraz.wordpress.com it might give u some tips and encouragement.?ive recently returned from Spain where over a period of weeks I cycled 850 km there is light at the end of the long tunnel. We are all different unfortunately and times  vary but the mucus one morning will be less I was prescribed carbusistine to help. 

    Good luch Hazel x 

  • Hi Kitkat

    Sorry to hear your husband is having a bad time . I had 6 weeks radiotherapy and 2 lots of chemo . Everyone's body seems to react differently during the post treatment recovery phase , I am now 5 months post treatment and I remember the first weeks after treatment being hell and that's the period my weight plummeted , I never had a PEG . The nebuliser did help with the mucus . The place he is at presently will have him wondering will it ever improve , well it definitely will and that is a guarantee , everybody on here that has been through it will tell you the same , during those dark months I struggled then about 2 1/2 months post treatment things began to change and healing started occurring that was noticeable . The severe mouth ulcers took ages to go . I have a dry mouth sometimes but it isn't constant . The last 3 weeks I am back eating normal dinners . He will get better but it just doesn't feel like it now . The Fortisips / Aymes drinks are very useful as full of vitamins and protein that is essential for body repair . I forced down full fat milk mixed with strawberry nesquick something I never drink usually but it helped massively looking back now . Yogurt you mentioned is also great . Little and often is best with food . Definitely keep up using the nebuliser it helped me with the mucus , I still had some sporadic mucus up until a month ago then one day it was gone . Bare in mind the intensity of the treatment and how it batters the body and the side effects it causes ,it is perfectly normal what he is going through , BUT as everyone on her can testify it will improve and the best thing about tonsil cancer is it can be cured . 
    Good luck to both of you and keep pushing , there is light at the end of the tunnel .

    Peter

  • Thank you so much for your very positive and motivating reply. You hit the nail on the head with how hes feeling. We are pushing forward and waiting to see those first signs. Good to know 2 1/2 months was your point where it became noticable. There is so little info about recovery and the support falls away. So it was really good to here your journey. Wishing you all the best as you move forward too. Kate 

  • Thank you for sharing your story. The very best wishes sent to you 

  • Your post has made me feel so much better about my scan results and treatment plan tomorrow. Thanks

  • Hi Sharonaabc

    I haven't been on the forum for a long time . Your comments were so nice to receive ,thank you .Does your treatment  start tomorrow ? It's a tough battle and at times you will feel that you cannot see yourself ever improving , well you most definitely will !, during the recovery period especially I had some tough moments BUT as everyone on this forum who has come through the other side will agree you do recover , I finished treatment at the end of June last year and back then I could not have imagined how well I would be now , the only lingering side effect that I am aware of is dry mouth but this is sporadic and I drink plenty of water , the dry mouth has very gradually improved and continues to improve . Just remember tonsil cancer has a massive cure rate with a minuscule chance of it recurring .If you want any advice on absolutely anything PLEASE message me as much as you want , I found this forum invaluable last year and had some great support from many wonderful people on here . Take care and push yourself , initial advice during treatment do all you can to keep your weight up , I drank a lot of full fat milk shakes and the Fortisip drinks the hospital give you , if you can maintain your weight through treatment it makes a huge difference . Anyway enough of me waffling .

    All the best 

    Peter-S