Tonsil cancer and recovery, my story so far.......

Tonsil cancer and recovery, my story so far.......

I discovered a small lump on the left hand side of my neck, just under my jaw, sort of gland area in May 2018. I assumed it was a swollen gland, but when it didn't go away after approx. 2 weeks, I went to my doctor. He wasn't overly concerned, but said it should be investigated if it was still there after 3 weeks, which it was. I went back to my doctor and he referred me to an ENT clinic. I underwent various tests, blood test, ultrasound, biopsy, CT scan and pet scan and all of the results were inconclusive, the doctors were adamant that the lump was harmless, however they would have to remove the lump. The operation was a success and a 4.5cm lump was removed, one week later I was told that it was cancer, a secondary cancer with an unknown origin. A second operation was required to find the origin, so my tonsils were removed, a small piece from the base of my tongue and all lymph nodes from the left hand side of my neck. This operation was much more complex, took around 4 hours and recovery was very difficult to say the least. Around a week later again I was told the cancer had originated in my left tonsil (HPV+) and found in a further 4 lymph nodes. No trace of cancer in my tongue thankfully and the lymph nodes with cancer were directly surrounding my tonsil and had not spread further down my neck. Around 40 lymph nodes were removed in total. I was told I would need 6 weeks of radiotherapy.  Which, quite frankly was the worst news ever, based on the possible/likely side effects, and not forgetting that horrible mask. I was to have a high dose of radiation to the left hand side of my neck and a lower dose to the right. I postponed my treatment until after christmas and at this very moment I finished my treatment just over 6 weeks ago. The treatment was difficult and I felt side effects almost immediately, my saliva thickened up and my taste changed very quickly. I managed to eat the whole way through and even now without too much pain, obviously with a lot of medication. I am on a fairly strict, bland diet so not to aggravate my throat and ulcers. I started getting ulcers towards the end of my treatment which are only just clearing up now, but over the past few days managed to get oral thrush too.  I get quite alot of pain in my jaw/gum that goes up to my ear, which is really painful at night, but have eventually found a pain killer to help that. The mucous towards the end of my treatment got pretty bad and is only just subsiding. My taste is quite good already and saliva slowly getting better. I am convinced that I have faired better than most throughout the treatment because of the lower dose of treatment to the right hand side of my neck. I had no internal side effects on that side whatsover, just slight burning on the exterior. The left hand side of my neck burned quite badly in the end, then scabbed, then peeled, over already fragile skin due to the previous operations, but it did heal quickly. I am of course still healing and still very much in recovery right now, but I'm hoping things will still get better. Looking forward to my first packet of crisps and sweeties and of course some alcohol........

I thought I would share my story in the hope that I can help someone else, or give other tonsil cancer patients hope and be able to give some friendly advice if needed.  I am 38 years young, diagnosed at 37 if that is of any interest.

Best wishes to you all x

  • just reading through this Peter, glad to see what you put about your neck.  I have 3 large lumps in there, 1 really sticks out and the others are pushing out the neck muscle so I know what you mean about the mountain range!  Can't wait to get rid of them, they are starting to cause me a bit of discomfort now - certainly aware that they are there :neutral:

  • Hi Sharon, really kind of you to follow up!

    well, this is where I am now!

    Have had CT, MRI & PET scans. No primary can be seen on any of them.  Only indication is initial squeeze by consultant who thought right tonsil was harder than left.  Scan shows 3 large 'Geralds' in neck.

    Plan is surgery (next Wednesday eek!) to remove both tonsils and strip from base of tongue.  If they see an obvious primary in right tonsil they might not whip out anything else (though maybe I like the idea of it being gone?! not so sure)

    Gerald is a buggar and has got himself embedded in the neck and is 'fuzzy' edged so not suitable for surgery.  Radiotherapy and chemo to finish him off.  Can't wait!  Pleased to say no teeth need to be removed :happy:

    Not feeling too bad.  Really hoping that this will all be over enough for me to go on holiday to Cornwall in August.  Didn't realise there would need to be such a gap between surgery and radio so might be pushing it.  Still feeling positive.  Have the most amazing head and neck nurse at the hospital who is always there for me if I need her - that helps.  Have shed a couple of tears but think that is more from being tired, try and keep them for away from home and kids!

    OK about the surgery, not looking forward to the other treatment but getting lots of top tips on here. None of us know how it will affect us personally.  Preparing for the worst - did that with childbirth which then wasn't as bad as I thought  it would be!!

    Hope you are still progressing well xxxx

  • Thanks for the update Julie. Like I said  I find this website really hard to negotiate ( maybe just me and IT. ) 

    Such good luck and best wishes are sent.

    Sharon xx

  • Hi Julie 

    Once the treatment starts you will be amazed at the rate that the lumps shrink and ultimately disappear . I had my treatment at Guys Hospital and every member of the team who dealt with me was superb , 19 months post treatment and it all seems like a blurred distant memory ... Just do everything the experts tell you to do and you will be fine . View each treatment day as a step closer to being cured and as you are probably aware the cure rate for our cancer is huge .Please keep us informed of your progress and any questions just ask , as I have stated previously I found this forum invaluable as a source of information and support  .  
    All the very best of luck to you .

    Peter 

     

  • Hi Julie and Peter.

    What Peter says is true. It does seem like a distant memory eventually. Sorry my post before doesn't make much sense they edited the part where I put my email on for you Julie if  you wanted a private chat .. Never mind . Before you know it you will be through your treatment and advising others. I am on the last few days of Walk All Over Cancer. 10000 steps every day in March. Its for cancer research to find less barbaric treatments . A good cause. Feel I am giving back. Raised over a grand. Have a good weekend if you can. Lots of love

    Sharon.

  • Hi Julie 

    weve already been in touch via Macmillian I a man on both if you want to send a friend request can chat privately if you need any info or just tomrant .

    Once treatment starts everything falls into place and you get into a routine honestly .

    Hazel aka RadioactiveRaz 

  • Hi there 

    I had a bilateral tonsillectomy and just recovering from neck dissection with 3 affected lymph nodes. I’m due to have 6 weeks radiotherapy and having the shell fitted on Monday. I’ve really appreciated reading the posts above as I was under the impression that 2 weeks post radiotherapy I would be fine but reality looks very different . I’m an anxious person not sleeping so have been trying a whole array of sleep tablets ( which give you dry mouth) so I guess I need to knock those on the head. I do think your strength is inspiring and I’m trying hard to be the same. I really would like to chat to others as I go through this ...if there’s a way of doing so

  • Hi Katplanet 

    My treatment commenced on the 20th May 2019 , so almost at my 2 year anniversary ! As Hazel states everything falls into place once the treatment starts , do everything the health care professionals tell you to do and you will get through it . Everybody going through this treatment has varied experiences and the advice on this forum you will find invaluable . I found the actual treatment ok but the recovery was tough initially post treatment and at one point I wasn't in a good place BUT gradually your body starts healing , amazing really .. Now 23 months post treatment the process all seems so long ago and almost like it didn't happen to me ... The cure rate is massive for our strain of cancer so hold on to that fact . 
    If you need advice as you go through this journey then don't hesitate to ask , you will get sound ,useful advice and support from everybody on this forum . 

    All the best 

    Peter 

  • Thanks so much Peter for responding. 

    Sound advice too and it’s good to hear you are well through the other side. I’m 47 with an 11 year old son and the guilt of not being normal mum is quite crushing atm. 

    Still doing my physio as my dissection to remove 42 nodes was 2 weeks ago. You really don’t have time to dwell on operations as you are into the next thing. When you say post recovery how long was your post recovery ? Also lots of people are writing about ulcers... Can you treat them with bonjela or are these massive needing strong painkillers like the dry throat ? 

    Kat 

  • Hi Kat 

    sorry you've found yourself in here. In answer to the ulcers noooo bonjela will send you through the roof your mouth will be far too sensitive. I can just about use it now 3 years post treatment. I was given gelclair for my ulcers I had ine full length of tongue. You will probably be in high dose pain killers which tend to dull any pain 

    I have a blog it may help you there’s links in it to other sites as well

    recovery is an ongoing process the firstb6-8 weeks after treatment finishes are the worse butbthungs *** radiation fatigue and eating difficulties can be much longer , at 3 years I still occasionally need a 20 min nap food wise I can eat most things aparts drom spicy but it’s unusual to be normal within weeks it depends on what radiotherapy chemo yiu have 

    www.radioactiveraz.wordpress.com 

    i didnt haveneck dissection as one of my lymph nodes was too close to spine so I had 35 radiotherapy sessions and 2 chemotherapy 

    Hope this helps Hazel x