Tonsil cancer and recovery, my story so far.......

Tonsil cancer and recovery, my story so far.......

I discovered a small lump on the left hand side of my neck, just under my jaw, sort of gland area in May 2018. I assumed it was a swollen gland, but when it didn't go away after approx. 2 weeks, I went to my doctor. He wasn't overly concerned, but said it should be investigated if it was still there after 3 weeks, which it was. I went back to my doctor and he referred me to an ENT clinic. I underwent various tests, blood test, ultrasound, biopsy, CT scan and pet scan and all of the results were inconclusive, the doctors were adamant that the lump was harmless, however they would have to remove the lump. The operation was a success and a 4.5cm lump was removed, one week later I was told that it was cancer, a secondary cancer with an unknown origin. A second operation was required to find the origin, so my tonsils were removed, a small piece from the base of my tongue and all lymph nodes from the left hand side of my neck. This operation was much more complex, took around 4 hours and recovery was very difficult to say the least. Around a week later again I was told the cancer had originated in my left tonsil (HPV+) and found in a further 4 lymph nodes. No trace of cancer in my tongue thankfully and the lymph nodes with cancer were directly surrounding my tonsil and had not spread further down my neck. Around 40 lymph nodes were removed in total. I was told I would need 6 weeks of radiotherapy.  Which, quite frankly was the worst news ever, based on the possible/likely side effects, and not forgetting that horrible mask. I was to have a high dose of radiation to the left hand side of my neck and a lower dose to the right. I postponed my treatment until after christmas and at this very moment I finished my treatment just over 6 weeks ago. The treatment was difficult and I felt side effects almost immediately, my saliva thickened up and my taste changed very quickly. I managed to eat the whole way through and even now without too much pain, obviously with a lot of medication. I am on a fairly strict, bland diet so not to aggravate my throat and ulcers. I started getting ulcers towards the end of my treatment which are only just clearing up now, but over the past few days managed to get oral thrush too.  I get quite alot of pain in my jaw/gum that goes up to my ear, which is really painful at night, but have eventually found a pain killer to help that. The mucous towards the end of my treatment got pretty bad and is only just subsiding. My taste is quite good already and saliva slowly getting better. I am convinced that I have faired better than most throughout the treatment because of the lower dose of treatment to the right hand side of my neck. I had no internal side effects on that side whatsover, just slight burning on the exterior. The left hand side of my neck burned quite badly in the end, then scabbed, then peeled, over already fragile skin due to the previous operations, but it did heal quickly. I am of course still healing and still very much in recovery right now, but I'm hoping things will still get better. Looking forward to my first packet of crisps and sweeties and of course some alcohol........

I thought I would share my story in the hope that I can help someone else, or give other tonsil cancer patients hope and be able to give some friendly advice if needed.  I am 38 years young, diagnosed at 37 if that is of any interest.

Best wishes to you all x

  • Hi Sharon 

    The process is an emotional rollercoaster that's for sure ! Yes I had a PET scan and I also went in to have the left tonsil removed but they didn't go through with it as the primary was too advanced , which I recall terrified me at the time , but my consultant a very straight talking person said afterwards don't panic you will be cured !

    Great news for you that it hasn't spread . Take things one day at a time and you have to focus on yourself , as I said previously try and maintain enough calories daily to maintain body weight , this will not be easy but pays off massively in the long run . My wife's support was awesome during my process and gave me a few metaphoric nudges at crucial times along the way . I kept a basic diary initially just to tally daily calories which was useful . You are about to embark on a process that will be very tough BUT the process results in being cured and that does happen . Anything you need to know along the way please ask .

     

    best wishes 

    Peter

  • Hi Ladydi 

    Lovely to hear from you . Recovery is going well , this time last year when I was 2 stone lighter and going through a bad period I could never have imagined I would be where I am today ! When I look back now it's almost surreal like it happened to someone else . The sporadic dry mouth is manageable .

    how are you doing ? , I hope you are in a good place .

    Best wishes 

    Peter

     

  • Hi Peter,

    Sun just came out. Might go for a bike ride with Hubby. Just spoke to our lovely Son (21) who is in Holland at the moment and knows nothing. Ignorance is bliss for him.

    Have a great Sunday.

    I'll let you know how I get on.

    Thanks so much.

    Sharon 

  • Hi again,

     

    I'm glad to hear your recovery is going well, it's amazing how much things can change and improve with time!  It's horrible at the time and you never think you'll get through it, but here we are, thank goodness.  A positive attitude goes a long way too.

    I am forever saying the exact same thing, it's very surreal, I feel like it never really happened to me.

    I'm actually doing great, I've put on all the weight that I lost, I'm eating well, minus spicy stuff, sadly, but wow, even mild spice is too spicy for me now. I do have a dry mouth on occasion and need to drink whilst eating to help wash food down, but it's fine, it's manageable.  Except for that I'm pretty much where I was pre cancer, with a thirst for life.

    Long may things continue to improve for us all!

     

  • Hi, I had tonsil cancer even though I had my tonsils taken out aged 7 so came quite a shock, I finished my radiotherapy last April and last October I had my lymph nodes removed. My only problem is I find it very difficult to eat as my mouth is very very dry, so I live mainly on the liquid drinks, if I do try food it's usually only a couple of tablespoons and then it sometimes sets coughing off, I always need a drink and need one through the night as mouth is so dry. Has anyone any tips, also from the operation on the neck I find it very tight from behind my ear to under my chin and have a swelling under my chin aswell. So pleased so many have come through this with not so many after effects, but for me it's a small price to pay to still be here today, I see my consultant tomorrow 17/9/20 for a routine tube down my nose to look at throat.

  • HimAladin sane. I am niw 2 month post radiotherapy for tonsil cancer with several affected lymph nodes 35 radiotherapy 2 chemotherapy.i paid for acupuncture treatments to kick start my saliva glands I honestly think it helped. Ask if yiur hospital,does them it’s auruclier acupuncture thatbyiu need. It’s only  jn the last few weeks I can say my saliva is almost back to nearly  normal .imuse xyimelts at night as the glands do slow down . Can’t help with neck as indidnt have a dissection ha be yiu been check for lymphodema swelling as therevar emassage s yiu can do to aid relief 

    hooemtbis helps Hazel xx 

  • Hi Aladinsane 

    I found Biotene Gel quite good during the night to alleviate dry mouth , last year during the early stages of recovery I used Xylomelts which also helped . I too have the slight swelling under the chin , I have no idea if this decreases over time , I will ask my consultant . I think stiffness to the neck is common as well . I had no operation so I can't really give advice . Hazel mentioned acupuncture , I paid for a course of this during early recovery and it had it no effect but I think it was purely because it was too soon after taking the battering of treatment , I have got a course of acupuncture through the Hospital starting at the end of October and hopefully this will improve the sporadic dry mouth .

    I hope you continue to improve .

     

    Best wishes 

    Peter 

  • Hi, thank you for your help and information, I am seeing consultant tomorrow so will enquire, wishing you well, reading everyone's experience shows how we all cope and have different symptoms.

  • Hi Peter

    thank you for your reply, I have tried the gels and it didn't really work, I have the salivese dry mouth spray which does help a little, and always have to have a drink available, I suppose this is a small price to pay, I miss not being able eat and luckily I get on with the Fresubin drinks and this looks like a long term solution, I do try to eat solids but the mouth goes so dry quickly I either start coughing or need water to wash it down, so it's no pleasure, are you coping ok with food. 
    other than the dry mouth and tightness and swelling of neck my treatment and surgery seemed to have done its job. 
    I am seeing consultant tomorrow and will ask if any treatment is available to help with the dry mouth, and as hazel said maybe massage for the neck.

     

    take care

  • Hi Aladinsane

    Eating for me is good now . I am 15 months post treatment and the improvements are slow . Spicy food is a no go and I require more water at times when eating than other times . The gels etc helped but for me especially at night during early recovery they didn't work for long , have always drank a lot of water so this wasn't a problem . I do wake some nights with dry mouth maybe once but if I focus I can produce saliva so this has moved forward a lot , basically it all seems manageable . I hope improvements happen for you , it seems slow and sometimes barely noticeable , but improvements do seem to occur .

     

    Peter