Can you actually survive stage 4 breast cancer nowadays?

Hello

Thanks in advance for any advice or answers. 

Am sorry to trouble you but am confused about what i have read and what i have been told.

I have been told by a medical team  that advanced breast cancer can be loooked at just like a chronic illness in some circumstances

And I have also read recently that advanced breast cancer has an excellent survival rate,.

But what is excellent in these circumstances? I want to be positive but also realistic. 

I read tales where people are happy that either themselves, their friends or relatives made it to 5 years, which indeed is lovely.

And I know this may sound odd or maybe ungrateful but  Is this considered excellent?

I always thought with chronic illnesses you just lived a normal life span but carried on with treatment.

Has anyone ever made it to 10, 20, 30,or even 40 years?

  • Hello kebbs,

     

    I've been on Letrozole now since Jan 2016 & have had no side effects.

     

     

  • Brilliant!! It seems a rarity!!! Delighted for you though!!

    Go well,

    Kebbs x 

     

  • I've only just joined this group and having ready your story it's really given me hope. I had very low grade breast cancer 2015. Was told just a few months ago by my oncologist that he was happy if I wanted to stop my tablets as have another 5 years. He said I have 1 per cent chance of reoccurance.  Just had a brain scan for possible MS. And now they tell me I have secondaries in the brain. Shocked isn't even close to his I feel. I have all the symptoms of MS too.  Waiting for a pet scan but thankyou for your story above its given me some real hope xx

  • I was diagnosed with breast cancer which had spread to both lungs in 2005.  15 years ago. I as 44.  I've had no further spread. I had endocrine treatment not traditional chemo. My oncologist initially expected a poorer prognosis. He has no idea why I have done well. I fully prepared myself to survive a short time, and was at peace with that. I believe we should trust in the doctors regarding our treatment, but at the same time realise there is a lot they don't know. They are not God when it comes to predicting life and there is a lot they can learn from us.

  • Hello,  I was dx with secondary breast cancer in 2008 (coming up to 13yrs) & have had 2 relapses. Try not to read too much about survival rates because everyone responds to treatment differently. Also, there are new treatments being developed all the time.

  • These stories are v inspiring as someone who has been diagnosed with secondaries in lungs an back after initial diagnosis last year! I don't plan on being a statstic  said from the start!! so many on here doing so well x

  •  hi ladies  i hav immflamatory  bc  spread to brain. Not long found out. Ur posts hav helpd me loads. Thank you. I am  48 full of life. Kids 21 and 13. I am goin nowhere. I wil fite. We al wil. Anyone can message me any time. Its great to talk. Big hugs to u all. X x

  • Helloooo,

    I'm nearly ten years in with mets throughout both lungs and liver.

    Oestrogen positive, IDC.

    I have no opinion about the things people say about survival. I am just so happy to be stable, and it looks like continuing that way (fingers crossed!!!!).

    Nope. You're not a statistic until you're gone. So carry on with that thought Carlak1 !

    I rermember my Prof telling me "it's not terminal until you're dead". His words gave me the hope that I needed to get through those difficult first years.

    Wishing you all the best and sending huge great hugs, and a few imaginary cancer fighting soldiers if you want them too.

     

    Mare xxx

  • Wow what an amazing story what a wonderful lady she is xx

  • Thank you so much Marie for the lovely reply, means so much to read such inspiring messages from other people going through the same 

     

    Much love to you, 

    Carla xox