The good and the bad

Hi peeps

I have recently been diagnosed with breast cancer. Taking the excellent advice on this website I pretty much started by taking it one day at a time. This does indeed help. 

I thought to share the good and the bad and would love to hear anyone else's should they wish to share.

Today I had both a good and a bad moment. I received 2 letters in the post.

The first was from the hosp confirming my op date (my bad moment) cos my stomach dropped and I had that now familiar feeling of anxiousness take hold for a moment but shook it off cos I know it is needed. 

The good - my 2nd letter - as if... a tax rebate - boom  . Not half put a much needed smile on my face . Reckon a my treat family meal is in order.

Eeee it's the little things ain't it. 

Take care peeps 

Sandra x ️X

 

  • Congratulations Cornisj.

    Teddy looks all warm and cosy. 

    Sundial

  • Oh my how gorgeous is Teddy ️

    Congratulations to all with special thoughts to u Cornish you have been long due some joyous moments in your life. 

    Welcome to the world baby Teddy ️ X

  • Morning peeps 

    bad :- none yay

    good :- just ya standard breakfast at grans... well it is when you forgot the milk for cereal so try t big up a boiled egg:D :D :D lil ones loved it .. phew. 

    Have as good a day as u can peeps 

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  • Hello ladies,

    Glad that some good things are happening in your lifes.

    Unfortunately my boyfriend is not so well and I'm struggling with a doubt, and perhaps you could help me with some advice.

    This week on Monday my boyfriend was hospitalised due to vomiting blood and it appears he is in his final days. I was a bit anxious, so on Wednesday I came to his city to visit him and help to support his parents. On Monday doctors said he could live like 4 or 5 days, but he is now on the 6th day of admission... I have been helping every single day, because most people can't stand much time in his hospital bedroom (it's too painful) but me and his mum are handling. Today is Sunday and I must decide if I go back to my city to work tomorrow or if I stay here.

    He's almost not responsive anymore, with oxygen tubes, difficulty to pee (he's on diapers), fevers, cannot eat, cannot talk or communicate, sleeps 90% of the time due to the drugs for the pain. I don't know if I should stay here (it's like waiting for him to die) but if I go to work I don't feel fine either because I don't have almost no work (my boss doenst give me tasks and it's my last week at the job anyway, I'll be there looking to the ceiling pretending I'm working most of the time)... What should I do? 

     

  • Hi so sorry t b reading this unfortunately this must b your own decision( difficult though it is). You are still between a rock and a hard place. It’s not that I don’t want t help you just can’t advise. 

    I am however sending my tightest of virtual hugs and saying whatever you choose t do I support you ️ X

  • Congratulations to you Cornish and to the new mummy and all your family :love: 

    your new baby grandson Teddy is absolutely adorable xxx

    Awwww happy days for you all :love:

  • Lonelygirl,

    just picked this up, my heart goes out to you. Reading through your post I feel in the last paragraph you answered your own question....if you went into work ( even if you had tasks to do) your mind would be back in that hospital room.....take a deep breath and listen to what your gut is telling you.... I feel you already know.....xxxxxx

  • Morning :)

    lovely bunny breakfast for your little ones :love:

    good...sunshine and family time :D

    bad.....none :)

    happy sunday xxx

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  • Hi lonelygirl

    im so sorry to hear your sad news x

    I can’t advise you but having been in the same situation with both my parents I followed my heart and spent every moment with them until the end came for them. I feel your pain and send you love at this very sad time for you xxx

  • Morning peeps 

    pippin -flowers.... always put a beaming smile on my face:)

    bad :- none

    good:- thats it all me spring c*** .... erm ... I mean lovingly created spring items are up.... gotta admit chuffed t bit with em ️ 

    Have as good a day as u can peeps x

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