Dear Sandra Brenda really enjoyed me visiting,she kept wanting a kiss and cuddle, still non stop talking and hardly sleeping.

i took a few things with me and she was thrilled,I took her some proper pants red with flowers and straight away she put them on over her PJ's,I said super women, and she burst out laughing  .

We worked out what else she wants and taking Thursday evening, and see if anything changed or someone sorted out what to do or check with Brenda.

Thinking of all you lovely ladies .

Love Billy xxxx

Wow... I'd spent my grown life expecting to retire at 60 ... as soon as I was ...I was off :laugh: so happy for you that you are now enjoying yours too x

Yes...I'm so pleased to read this Billy ( can only imagine how happy you are ️). Lovely to hear she is on top form. Hope everything continues on this positive note.

We just need a bit of good new on Bella too. 
 

take care Billy and look after yourself..your ladies need you x

Oh no.... so sorry to hear this Billy. It's like you all take a step forward then back again. Hopefully where they move her to helps her settle down a bit bless. It must be heart lifting that's she is pleased to see you at least ️. 
 

keep us posted Billy, try to keep positive and look after yourself x

Dear Sandra bit of update on Brenda , she's in psychiatric hospital,had to isolate her for three days,I can visit tomorrow,got to have lateral flow test before entering , can only stay 3/4 hour I've got transport arranged . im lost without Brenda so quiet,I keep TV on and try to do odd jobs . I've a jigsaw 1000 pieces do a bit each day helps me to concentrate on something ,( sometimes wish id got easier one) . Im determined to get it done .

Hope you and yours are doing well .

Love Billy xxxx

Bless... I assume they are assessing her. I just bet you feel the quiet and feel like you have time on your hands... you have spent all the hours god gives looking after your ladies . ️.

You are doing the right thing keeping yourself busy. Glad you are enjoying your jigsaw.... I hate jigsaws...I'm ones of those people who try to force the bits in the wrong place lol. 

enjoy your visit as best you can... and I keep everything crossed that things will pick up soon for you. Take care of yourself Billy... thinking of you all x
 

Hello everyone

Just popped in to see how you all are! Unfortunately it's not good news this end. Today I took my mum to doctors for a lump on her face. I could tell by look on his face it wasn't good. She is now waiting for an appointment at hospital yes the 2 week referral. But as usual don't worry till you know exactly what it is. But this is my mum and so hard. 4 years ago I was then waiting to go in to have my lumperectomy done now looks like it will be mum having surgery. Yes 4 years since I found you amazing people!! 

Love to you all x 

Hi Beachbabe,

It's great to hear from you again, but I wish that your news was better.I hope that all goes well for your mum. How are you keeping these days?

Please keep in touch and let us know how things go for your mum. As you know already, we are always here for you.

Kind regards,

Jolamine xx

Hi all - this cancer is such a *** disease! Milestones are great - 5 years since my first bout of treatment and a year since second bout of treatment.

I think absolutely everyone on this chat is remarkable. The strength and determination it takes to deal with what we have been through as well as coping with survival issues and curveballs life throws us.

On a good note - I did my jump and am still in one piece!! It was such a surreal experience and I'd do it again! Not gonna lie - was super calm throughout the moment until I'm sitting dangling my feet out of the plane and then whoosh! I'm out and upside down!!!! That's the moment I definitely got scared but I screamed and was ok. I got to hold the handles for the parachute and turn it and see the whole of Kent from above. So so beautiful.

Another thing ticked off my list! Now to get on with the rest of my list!!

At least the weather is getting better so get out and enjoy whatever you can. Take care all.